How old are we again?

[Laura]

As you wrote, I'm one of the people just tuning in on this... so forgive me if I've missed something important in saying this: why on earth has he not just blocked her on everything?

[NerdyH]

I've been reading your posts and threads for a while, and this girl sounds like nothing but trouble. Like the others have said, I honestly think your SO should cut off all contacts. It's not hard at all. And you know what, I think you DO have the right to ask that of him, because this girl insults you and is just being downright rude. Your guy should stand up for you, which I'm sure he does, but sometime he also needs to realise that enough is enough, yes? She gives NOTHING to you or your SO, and he should be willing to give up the contact with her for you. Is some old and ruined friendship that has now turned into nothing but a bother worth losing you for? No! You'd do both you and your SO AND this girl a favour if your SO would stop talking to her.

So, as said, I do think you have the right to ask that of your SO. Because right now, from what I've read of your posts and threads, he WILL have to choose between you and her, and you should be the obvious choice.

I hope everything turns out well! (:

[BJL_Sweetheart1109]

I'd keep track of all this crazy stalker stuff she's doing. And I'd tell her one last time to leave the two of you alone or you'll request a restraining order. After informing her "this is the last time I'm telling you LEAVE US ALONE!" then cut all ties. Stop explaining to her that it's over and he's with you. It's obvious he's with you, and it's obvious she's too dense to get it. I'd get in touch with your local police or whatever and explain you have an ex that is harassing you two (not leaving you alone) and what kind of steps do you need to take to document it all and file for a restraining order!!

My bff just had to do this with her ex, but it's important you have everything documented about her continuing to try to contact you. You also have to cut ties with her bc if you continuing responding it will be like you were just egging her on, know what I'm saying. I'd get in touch with local authorities and ask what steps you need to take to get her to leave you alone and get the restraining order if need be.