Silvermoonfairy, this is why I want to know more about their weekdays. If the weekend is the only time they are free to talk, then this situation is a lot different than if the weekdays are reserved for her. If she only gets to talk to him on Friday and Sunday after he comes home and throughout the week they have no communication at all, I would expect him to make some time for her, but this is why I didn't want to go further into detail until the OP explains more about their communication time.
And when it comes to not changing their routines just because they have a girlfriend now, I stick to my opinion and I do it because my man goes out every Sunday to play D&D with his friends, every single Sunday (from 8pm to 3am my time) and on Mondays he plays it online with the same friends, plus one friend that lives in Boston and can't come down to play on Sundays. He has done this for the past 17 years and it would be absolutely selfish of me to ask him to reserve those days for me, because I get all of his attention during the other days. I get about an hour before he leaves, sometimes I get nothing when he works longer and I have absolutely no problem with it. It is a "tradition" of some sorts!
There really is no arguing until the OP gives us more insight. Is it wrong of him to leave every weekend to his friends? Maybe, maybe not.
And when it comes to not changing their routines just because they have a girlfriend now, I stick to my opinion and I do it because my man goes out every Sunday to play D&D with his friends, every single Sunday (from 8pm to 3am my time) and on Mondays he plays it online with the same friends, plus one friend that lives in Boston and can't come down to play on Sundays. He has done this for the past 17 years and it would be absolutely selfish of me to ask him to reserve those days for me, because I get all of his attention during the other days. I get about an hour before he leaves, sometimes I get nothing when he works longer and I have absolutely no problem with it. It is a "tradition" of some sorts!
There really is no arguing until the OP gives us more insight. Is it wrong of him to leave every weekend to his friends? Maybe, maybe not.
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