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    What do you do when you miss your SO?

    Every once in a while when I'm doing my stuff I suddenly miss him so much! Usually after we finished talking and he has to go to sleep (6 hours of difference). I just watch a funny movie or tv. Some times I read our last messages and that makes me feel better. I try to books too. It doesn't always works though. (Mainly because I keep daydreaming).

    What do you guys do when you are missing your SO?

    #2
    depends what kind of mood I am in.. If we have just had a trip and are going through the post visit withdrawals then I will try to embrace it a little more and Skype with him as much as I can or look to my sister/visiting my friends for some comfort and distraction.

    If it's just a random day missing him in the middle of long distance and he isn't available to skype then I'll send him a short msg letting him know I love him and am missing him and then get on with something, do the dishes or laundry, watch youtube videos... I find it helps to get away from my laptop when I'm missing him and spend some time doing productive things around the house
    Met Online: February 2009
    Feelings grew: January 2011
    First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
    Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
    Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
    Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
    Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
    Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
    Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
    Engaged: 1st of July 2012
    Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
    Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
    Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
    Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
    Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
    Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

    Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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      #3
      I call even for a 2 minute convo

      "Buddha made you for me" - My SO



      1st Met/Visit: Nov 2012 - Thailand
      2nd Visit: May 2013 - Thailand
      3rd Visit: Jun 2013 - Thailand
      4th Visit: Sep 2013 - Thailand
      5th Visit: Sep 2013 - Jan 2014 - UK
      6th Visit: Apr 2014 - Thailand - Marry
      7th Visit: Sept 14th 2014 - Thailand - Wedding Ceremony / Party
      Close the distance - Sept 21st 2014 - UK
      UK Wedding Party: November 8th 2014

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        #4
        I send the short messages too! They really help.

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          #5
          I look at pictures of us.
          I thought of you and the years and all the sadness fell away from me - Pink Floyd

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            #6
            I reread old messages, look at photos, send him a message telling him i love and miss him. Focus on the positive steps we've taken to close the distance and remind myself that someday,i'll only have to go a few hours without seeing him instead of months.
            As long as there is air in my lungs... there is a chance

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              #7
              Eat more chocolate

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                #8
                EAT REALLY YUMMY FOOD.

                Also, working out helps a lot!

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                  #9
                  Well if I look at old pictures/messages it only gets worse because I remember how extremely good it is to be with her.
                  So definitely do something else totally unrelated!

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                    #10
                    I stop for a minute and daydream about us and our future plans when I miss him (If I'm not doing anything) or see a movie with my friends to keep my mind off him.

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                      #11
                      I read our old love letters. I guess its counterintuitive but it works for me. It makes me smile and turn it into a happy missing rather than sad missing, if that makes sense.

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                        #12
                        Recently I've been closing my eyes while trying to envision what its going to be like when we see each other again at the airport... I usually send a short email. SO would send pictures of what he is doing when he misses me. Those are fun, he could be trekking or watching something or traveling...

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                          #13
                          I always go back to look at the video messages he's left me. We go for about three to four days without video chatting, so it starts to hurt a little. Playing back the videos makes me feel a bit better because I get to see his face, his beautiful smile, and hear his voice. Hearing his voice definitely soothes me.

                          But if it's one of those days where videos won't help, I end up painting. It takes up a lot of my concentration so it doesn't really leave me room to think of anything else
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                          Met August 2012
                          Official Nov. 18 2012
                          Visited him in Italy August 8 2013
                          He's visiting April 7-28 2014
                          I visited: Aug. 26-Sept. 25 2014

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                            #14
                            I feel weird now... Because when I miss him (like those awful days, ya know, you cry and you think everything is against you) I can't look at our photos, or I can't read our letters and all of that... I really don't feel like doing any of that stuff when Im sad and sometimes I wonder if skypying makes me feel better. just because its the "materialization" (does this word exists?) of the person you miss.
                            I can push myself look at suff and sometimes it works, but I think only in very few cases.
                            I prefer to get distracted and push myself to meet other people, otherwise Im just crying in front of the laptop!

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                              #15
                              Everyone has their own methods but I can see a pattern: Either recall your memories (watching videos, photos, reading messages) or do something not related to your SO.

                              But I agree eating chocolate always, always helps.

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