My SO and i have been together for 6 months and everything was going great up until this last month. She started feeling sad and hopeless and wanting someone that's in her city but she keeps thinking about me. she can't handle a long distance relationship but she really really wants to be with me. so she told me she will stay with me if we can be together... soon and for a long period of time.
I dont have a degree yet because i just started college so i cant get a work visa. and if i study abroad there i'll exceed the credit limit i need to transfer to the university i want to go to here. my only option is a tourist visa. she said i can go there on a tourist visa and live with her for a month. but she wants us to be together longer and our other option is to get married! i'm too young to get married in China so she wants to get married here and stay with me.
this would be a dream come true! however there are a lot of things we will have to sacrifice and it will be very difficult :/ I've heard a lot of scary things about the K1 visa process. while we are trying to get the k1 visa for her she wants me to stay with her in China for a month. in order for me to do that in the timeframe shes thinking of i would have to quit college for at least a semester and focus on getting enough money to visit her.
we are still trying to figure out the plan but so far we are thinking of staying together in shanghai durring the month of october and it will cost about $1,600. $822 for the round trip flight $500 to pay for living expenses there and the rest for miscellaneous fees ill have to pay to get there. if i dont go to college this semester i have $600 but im kind of worried because this is my dads money :s i think my family and friends will be so mad at me for skipping a semester of school to visit my girlfriend in china and they especially won't like that i'm using their money.
so i need some help. what jobs could i get where i will only work for 2 or 3 months and get at least $1,000 in that time frame? and what could i tell my family to keep them from freaking out? and also what are your thoughts on this whole situation me and her still arent sure if we want to commit to this or just give up on our relationship.
I dont have a degree yet because i just started college so i cant get a work visa. and if i study abroad there i'll exceed the credit limit i need to transfer to the university i want to go to here. my only option is a tourist visa. she said i can go there on a tourist visa and live with her for a month. but she wants us to be together longer and our other option is to get married! i'm too young to get married in China so she wants to get married here and stay with me.
this would be a dream come true! however there are a lot of things we will have to sacrifice and it will be very difficult :/ I've heard a lot of scary things about the K1 visa process. while we are trying to get the k1 visa for her she wants me to stay with her in China for a month. in order for me to do that in the timeframe shes thinking of i would have to quit college for at least a semester and focus on getting enough money to visit her.
we are still trying to figure out the plan but so far we are thinking of staying together in shanghai durring the month of october and it will cost about $1,600. $822 for the round trip flight $500 to pay for living expenses there and the rest for miscellaneous fees ill have to pay to get there. if i dont go to college this semester i have $600 but im kind of worried because this is my dads money :s i think my family and friends will be so mad at me for skipping a semester of school to visit my girlfriend in china and they especially won't like that i'm using their money.
so i need some help. what jobs could i get where i will only work for 2 or 3 months and get at least $1,000 in that time frame? and what could i tell my family to keep them from freaking out? and also what are your thoughts on this whole situation me and her still arent sure if we want to commit to this or just give up on our relationship.
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