Hiya, I'm Hannah. I'm 17. My boyfriend is 16.
My boyfriend is quite clingy and asks for replies 24/7 and if I don't reply, he usually starts an argument with me saying how ignorant or oblivious I am. Sadly, i'm quite slow at replying, and I always have been not because I want to be but my concentration level is very low so when i'm doing one thing, I remember I need to do another and I start doing that, totally forgetting the other thing I was doing. That must sound terrible. I love him to bits, he means the world to me and frankly, he says I either need to start replying quicker or it's over but usually, he thinks i'm telling lies or whatever which makes it more difficult. I'm quite difficult person to communicate with and we have this constant argument over and over, and I ask my friends for help but since he knows my friends too, he usually asks them or asks me if i've been asking for help which makes it alot worse. I really want to solve the issue and be a better person but everytime I say that, I end up doing it again, it's like a habit and a bad habit at that because he thinks I don't care when in reality, i'd do anything for him. I really want to be a better person but the fact it it can take between 5-20 minutes for me to reply sometimes just pisses me off because I really want to be a better person, the person he loves but i'm having difficulty to do that. I'm also really forgetful, so when I go out somewhere or to do something I forget to mention it to him.
My boyfriend is quite clingy and asks for replies 24/7 and if I don't reply, he usually starts an argument with me saying how ignorant or oblivious I am. Sadly, i'm quite slow at replying, and I always have been not because I want to be but my concentration level is very low so when i'm doing one thing, I remember I need to do another and I start doing that, totally forgetting the other thing I was doing. That must sound terrible. I love him to bits, he means the world to me and frankly, he says I either need to start replying quicker or it's over but usually, he thinks i'm telling lies or whatever which makes it more difficult. I'm quite difficult person to communicate with and we have this constant argument over and over, and I ask my friends for help but since he knows my friends too, he usually asks them or asks me if i've been asking for help which makes it alot worse. I really want to solve the issue and be a better person but everytime I say that, I end up doing it again, it's like a habit and a bad habit at that because he thinks I don't care when in reality, i'd do anything for him. I really want to be a better person but the fact it it can take between 5-20 minutes for me to reply sometimes just pisses me off because I really want to be a better person, the person he loves but i'm having difficulty to do that. I'm also really forgetful, so when I go out somewhere or to do something I forget to mention it to him.
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