Hi, Im new to this site, but felt really desperate with the situation going on.
I met my fiance when he was on a work visa in australia. We dated 2 months & lived together 5 months because we knew it was special & wanted to fasttract the relationship before he had to return to Germany. He asked me to marry him the day before he left. He has never been engaged or married. I am recently divorced.
He is love of my life, & he feels the same about me. I trust him completely. He has ALWAYS been honest & open with me, which is why I knew he had a past relationship of 1 year with his now best friend.
She is from Germany, but I also met her in Australia, & like her, & had no bad feelings about the 2 of them.
However, they are both back in Germany. I just returned from a 3 week holiday visiting my fiance and meeting his family, after he returned 2 months ago. We are working on submitting a skilled independent visa so he can return. To save money & find a flat which are scarce in Hamburg, he & his best friend have decided to rent together to save on costs. Now I was ok with their friendship, but extremely uncomfortable with them living together, given their history.
My Fiance has gone out of his way to explain there is nothing between them, and make me feel at ease. He really believes that it is the best solution to getting a flat so he can save & work on returning to Australia. We argued over skype about it & it was horrible. I backed down & said do what you have to do, but Im not ok with it now or however long it goes on.
What are your thoughts on this? Am I being unreasonable?
Much thanks
I met my fiance when he was on a work visa in australia. We dated 2 months & lived together 5 months because we knew it was special & wanted to fasttract the relationship before he had to return to Germany. He asked me to marry him the day before he left. He has never been engaged or married. I am recently divorced.
He is love of my life, & he feels the same about me. I trust him completely. He has ALWAYS been honest & open with me, which is why I knew he had a past relationship of 1 year with his now best friend.
She is from Germany, but I also met her in Australia, & like her, & had no bad feelings about the 2 of them.
However, they are both back in Germany. I just returned from a 3 week holiday visiting my fiance and meeting his family, after he returned 2 months ago. We are working on submitting a skilled independent visa so he can return. To save money & find a flat which are scarce in Hamburg, he & his best friend have decided to rent together to save on costs. Now I was ok with their friendship, but extremely uncomfortable with them living together, given their history.
My Fiance has gone out of his way to explain there is nothing between them, and make me feel at ease. He really believes that it is the best solution to getting a flat so he can save & work on returning to Australia. We argued over skype about it & it was horrible. I backed down & said do what you have to do, but Im not ok with it now or however long it goes on.
What are your thoughts on this? Am I being unreasonable?
Much thanks
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