Hello! I’m back to LFAD… First of all - Never again. I repeat, NEVER AGAIN! And by that, I mean I’ll never date another professional athlete (Ex-SO: FL / Me: IL).
Now I’ve found myself pining after a man of total opposite proportions. The major difference being that he lives in Finland and I’m in the US (IL to be exact). He plays guitar (like me), is a web designer, is soft spoken, beautiful (in a Johnny Depp sort-of-way, long hair and all), and pursued me on a musicians dating website.
Having the potential of dating someone with an eight hour time difference has a lot of pros and cons but so far it’s pretty cool! I’m very independent (single mom) so we both have time to do our own thing but always so happy to hear from each other.
We are NOT official (only been talking for a month) but he says he would like us to get to that point and keep growing stronger, so I want to know if anyone with an international LDR has been here before. Do you agree it’s good that we give this some time to be sure it’s something we want to commit to?
I’m mostly interested in those who initially met online and didn’t meet in person for a while, since that is most likely the boat we’ll be in if we decide to make it official. Oh and I’m asking now because I’m an impatient person by nature and being hurt before by other guys, I wonder what a man from the other side of the world would want from me and how he might decide when's the 'right' time… but in turn, I’m so intrigued by him. (I feel like a nerd getting so excited .)
Now I’ve found myself pining after a man of total opposite proportions. The major difference being that he lives in Finland and I’m in the US (IL to be exact). He plays guitar (like me), is a web designer, is soft spoken, beautiful (in a Johnny Depp sort-of-way, long hair and all), and pursued me on a musicians dating website.
Having the potential of dating someone with an eight hour time difference has a lot of pros and cons but so far it’s pretty cool! I’m very independent (single mom) so we both have time to do our own thing but always so happy to hear from each other.
We are NOT official (only been talking for a month) but he says he would like us to get to that point and keep growing stronger, so I want to know if anyone with an international LDR has been here before. Do you agree it’s good that we give this some time to be sure it’s something we want to commit to?
I’m mostly interested in those who initially met online and didn’t meet in person for a while, since that is most likely the boat we’ll be in if we decide to make it official. Oh and I’m asking now because I’m an impatient person by nature and being hurt before by other guys, I wonder what a man from the other side of the world would want from me and how he might decide when's the 'right' time… but in turn, I’m so intrigued by him. (I feel like a nerd getting so excited .)
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