How do you cope saying goodbye

[Vidhadi]

We have only met 3 times in and whenever we did, I just felt devastated. I think if we waited until we cannot cry anymore, we would have missed our plane (which isn't quite so terrible?). We never handle "goodbyes" on the spot by controlling our feelings. I try not to cry aloud though. We handle post-goodbye by planning our next meet up even though we're uncertain when it will be.

--Joy

[Fraden]

Just said goodbye to my SO again this morning after 3 weeks of him over here. I broke down a lot over the past few days and had a cry when I got back to my flat. I just didn't want to let him go.

[Cristiana]

We handle post-goodbye by planning our next meet up

Same for us!
And, well.. I dont cope at all.
Last time I spent two or three days crying, even tho in front of him at the airport I had a big smile on my face and I was like "That's fine, I'm good" but way no. I told to him that I want for him to see me happy instead of negative but he told me that we both have the right to show our true emotions so if I want to cry I'll cry. (I love him so much )