Hi guys,
I'm new here but I was just curious, how many times have you visited/lived with each other before getting married. Has anyone actually gotten married on 1st or 2nd visit? I have noticed a lot of folks here are from well off countries either close by or where spending thousands on plane tickets and what not is apparently not such a big deal, just a few months of work right? But In my case - the cost of one trip is basically my yearly income, if lucky. And I know for sure, for the next at least 5 years that is unlikely to change simply because I live in a much poorer part of the world and because of other reasons out of my control. My SO however, lives in one of the wealthier countries and able to help out with it, at least partially but only once. She is soon going to rent her own place so there will be enough expenses to deal with already. There is also strict visa laws on how long I can come for and how often. Coming to me isn't an option either, at least not for now as it is even more costly and complicated. Ive tried looking for work there but I am not a EU citizen so I couldn't even work without a permit. We thought, since it is so difficult is it actually possible to get married on first visit and get approved to stay? If not on first, is it ok on 2nd or 3rd? We've been in LDR for about 2 years now so we know nearly everything about each other and are more than confident that we don't want to be separated after a few weeks of my visit. However, I understand it may look crazy in the eyes of officials. So I'm just curious if anyone's been in the same situation? What is the actual minimum amount of visits required to not be seen as fraud? Thanks.
I'm new here but I was just curious, how many times have you visited/lived with each other before getting married. Has anyone actually gotten married on 1st or 2nd visit? I have noticed a lot of folks here are from well off countries either close by or where spending thousands on plane tickets and what not is apparently not such a big deal, just a few months of work right? But In my case - the cost of one trip is basically my yearly income, if lucky. And I know for sure, for the next at least 5 years that is unlikely to change simply because I live in a much poorer part of the world and because of other reasons out of my control. My SO however, lives in one of the wealthier countries and able to help out with it, at least partially but only once. She is soon going to rent her own place so there will be enough expenses to deal with already. There is also strict visa laws on how long I can come for and how often. Coming to me isn't an option either, at least not for now as it is even more costly and complicated. Ive tried looking for work there but I am not a EU citizen so I couldn't even work without a permit. We thought, since it is so difficult is it actually possible to get married on first visit and get approved to stay? If not on first, is it ok on 2nd or 3rd? We've been in LDR for about 2 years now so we know nearly everything about each other and are more than confident that we don't want to be separated after a few weeks of my visit. However, I understand it may look crazy in the eyes of officials. So I'm just curious if anyone's been in the same situation? What is the actual minimum amount of visits required to not be seen as fraud? Thanks.
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