We're not spending Christmas together :'(

[squeeker]

Thanks squeeker for your reply, it makes me feel better to read I'm not the only one in this boat. You seem like a strong person who can put up with distance better than me! you're right, I'll be closing the distance in less than a year, and I should be thankful for that, besides, we both will be able to see our boyfriends on cam, and spend time with them.
Have you seen this movie "Going the distance"? I think this will be us https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NY1101J4JAs
It might not be so bad, besides, time flies and when we notice, these holidays will be over hehe, I'll think about the Christmases in the future years too!! that will inspire me. Right now I just want to save money, work hard to get the visa, and be a nice girlfriend for my bf. Thanks for your reply.

Aww yeah I saw that movie, that clip is great! It kind of makes me want to watch the movie again one of these days. I think that was one of my favourite scenes! So relatable.. I'm glad I could be of some help as well as everyone else here who had great ideas!! Enjoy your last Skype Christmas before you close the distance!!

[80anthea]

We'll be in the same situation which I am struggling with. All that seems to be helping is thinking of the many more years to come when hopefully we will get to spend it together.

[jana89]

All that seems to be helping is thinking of the many more years to come when hopefully we will get to spend it together.

Exactly What is one Christmas apart in the view of having all the rest of life together? We just have to hang in there.

[Lucky]

Jess, I am glad you are feeling more positive and getting some great ideas and support here I think spending time with your family will be good, after all, odds are you won't be spending next christmas with them right? I can only imagine how excited you must be to move!

In my case I am spending christmas with my husband, but our first christmas (last year) we didn't spent together. If I remember correctly he was in the middle of nowhere somewhere in Afghanistan and the connection was not good enough for video chat so we didn't have the luxury of a cyber-date. We talked on the phone for a bit but the connection was just awful and frustrating. I spent time with my family and made sure to take pictures for him which I sent as soon as I went to bed for him to see whenever possible.

This makes christmas this year super special to me, I know yours will be awesome next year *abrazos*

[hopefulteapot]

I won't be seeing mine for Christmas but am lucky enough to be able to see him for New Year's Eve. I don't expect to be able to celebrate every major holiday with him and that saddens me as well but we have to deal. Just realize this is not forever and one day you'll be able to celebrate everyday with your special someone.

[Ahava]

I'm sorry you won't be able to spend New Year with your bf Ahava. But as you said, life goes on. And if you have kids, I'm sure they'll make it easier for you. I might spend some time with my family too. Family is important too and we should not forget that.
I know flight tickets are crazy expensive, but fortunately there will be some deals after the crazy holidays. I hope you manage to see your love sometime in January. Thanks for replying and happy holidays for you.

Thank you Jess for your kind words!
I only just read this.
My SO has promised to come in Jan for a long weekend, he will be booking his flights in a week from now.
We will have a super short countdown!
I hope all of us have a lovely time during these holidays with whomever we are celebrating.
Take care!

[jess_mp]

Jess, I am glad you are feeling more positive and getting some great ideas and support here I think spending time with your family will be good, after all, odds are you won't be spending next christmas with them right? I can only imagine how excited you must be to move!

In my case I am spending christmas with my husband, but our first christmas (last year) we didn't spent together. If I remember correctly he was in the middle of nowhere somewhere in Afghanistan and the connection was not good enough for video chat so we didn't have the luxury of a cyber-date. We talked on the phone for a bit but the connection was just awful and frustrating. I spent time with my family and made sure to take pictures for him which I sent as soon as I went to bed for him to see whenever possible.

This makes christmas this year super special to me, I know yours will be awesome next year *abrazos*

Thanks Lucky for your kind words. I am glad you guys already closed the distance. Difficult moments make us stronger. Enjoy christmas with your husband and have an awesome time!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the good wishes. Abrazos

[jess_mp]

I won't be seeing mine for Christmas but am lucky enough to be able to see him for New Year's Eve. I don't expect to be able to celebrate every major holiday with him and that saddens me as well but we have to deal. Just realize this is not forever and one day you'll be able to celebrate everyday with your special someone.

You're lucky indeed to see your bf for New year!!! I see you guys also have a loooong distance between you, but as you said, long distance isn't forever. Have a great time and awesome start of the year with your love. Hugs xxx

[cecile02]

It was our second Christmas far from each other...We said it was our last...Did we break up ? did we close the distance ? did we manage to be together ? I don't know. I feel little sad at this period of year.
Wish you all the best for this new year.

[differentcountries]

It was our second Christmas far from each other...We said it was our last...Did we break up ? did we close the distance ? did we manage to be together ? I don't know. I feel little sad at this period of year.
Wish you all the best for this new year.

I believe we are all a bit sensitive this time of year. I hope to have my so here for next Christmas and New Year. There will be good time to make plans.