I miss him and other issues

[thehappyhope]

This thread reduced me to tears..

It's only been 2 days since I left my SO, and I'm taking it really badly.

I miss dancing silly with him in the kitchen. I miss messing with his hair. I miss the way he laughs. I miss having his arms wrap around me. I miss having him carry me while his facial expression reflects how heavy I am for him to carry. I miss blackberry pickings with him. I miss baking with him.

I know I should be grateful I had wonderful times with him, but it makes me feel sad that it's in the past..

[Petals]

This thread reduced me to tears..

It's only been 2 days since I left my SO, and I'm taking it really badly.

I miss dancing silly with him in the kitchen. I miss messing with his hair. I miss the way he laughs. I miss having his arms wrap around me. I miss having him carry me while his facial expression reflects how heavy I am for him to carry. I miss blackberry pickings with him. I miss baking with him.

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I can so relate! I've been away from my SO for 2 nights after spending 2 months with him....It is so hard! I say nights because it's the hardest time for me. I miss resting my head on his chest; my head rising and falling with his breathing and listening to his heartbeat until I fall asleep. We cuddle throughout the night, reaching for each other
whenever either of us wakes up and for some reason we are apart. As I type I am wearing his pajama top that he slept in for a week...the smell of him is so strong!

I miss making him dinner...he gained a few pounds from my cooking lol. I miss choosing his clothes and putting his hair into a ponytail (he has long blonde/light brown hair), I miss shopping with him. I miss him bringing me coffee in the mornings and kissing me goodbye as he leaves for work...only to send me a ' I love you ' or 'I miss you' message within 5 mins of walking out the door. I miss his "will be home soon babe" texts in the evenings.

I miss him so much...no visit planned yet but probably 5 or 6 months before we see each other again.

I know I will feel better in a week or two, but this period is so hard!

[conejita_hada]

This thread reduced me to tears..

It's only been 2 days since I left my SO, and I'm taking it really badly.

I miss dancing silly with him in the kitchen. I miss messing with his hair. I miss the way he laughs. I miss having his arms wrap around me. I miss having him carry me while his facial expression reflects how heavy I am for him to carry. I miss blackberry pickings with him. I miss baking with him.

I know I should be grateful I had wonderful times with him, but it makes me feel sad that it's in the past..

It's okay to feel sad and miss all those things about being close distance. Sometimes, those thoughts will bring happiness instead of sadness.
My add to the thread was going to be on how I miss being close distance, before I saw your post. I think the yearning continues in each of us but there is still a happiness and motivation to continue because ultimately, we get to be with our SOs, even if it takes a little while between the times we physically hug them.

[Miasmata]

My SO also left 2 days ago, after 3 weeks we spent together. I can relate to all of you. Hang in there.

What I miss the most about him is his presence, that feeling of having him here, being a part of my place and my day. When I lie on my couch, trying to sleep or waking up from it, his presence on the other half of the couch is sorely missing. Having him there, warm and at peace, was just so incredibly comforting. Now all I have is his sweater, and I know that once his scent has faded from it, I'll miss that as well. My room just feels so empty without him lounging on the couch or doing work on his laptop.

[differentcountries]

Oh and I also miss us being three. I love being alone with him but I like having my husband there too. My husband knows me and he understands my boyfriend so he is the perfect mediator. Also, I love going out the three of us and the energy.

[Rainbow]

I can also reaallly relate to this, thank you guys for doing this thread! My boyfriend left again two weeks ago after being here this time for 4 months! I miss his smile, I miss his hugs, I miss his arms, I miss him snoring at night.. yes I do..., I miss doing bible study together with him and going for walks with him.... and I also miss the sex with him and I also don't want to think about that ... It feels good reading other people's experience in this kind of relationship. The few friends I have here don't really understand I don't think. I'm from Germany by the way too, but I live in the US. That makes it even a little harder I think to have a LDR because I don't have family here, and with my parents I can only skype and call as well.

[farandaway]

I miss his touch. His nice hairy chest and his nice hairy body. I miss waking up with him and I miss our long conversations in bed and the wayIhe looks at me. Of course I miss the passion and relaxing afterwards.

[Unconditional]

Right now I'm really missing his voice, and his face. I keep looking at pictures, but I only have so many! I miss the way are together, please don't forget about me, I haven't forgotten about you.

[thehappyhope]

I'm from Germany by the way too, but I live in the US. That makes it even a little harder I think to have a LDR because I don't have family here, and with my parents I can only skype and call as well.

Ditto. I'm from Indonesia, but I live in Singapore, so I don't have my family around as well, which makes it harder. Some days feel like a fight for survival, but that's okay, everything will be okay in the end.