I heard the most wonderful news today! My SO wants to have a baby with me. We have mentioned the subject over the years but this time he was sending me his baby pictures (which are incredibly cute!!) and he says he would really want to have a baby with me. I asked him if he really means that and he does. He does not have biological children but he has always wanted to have. He is leaving his old relationship and it's made him a totally new person. He's been holding back before for obvious reasons.
Now we have two things slowing this down.... first is long distance which might not be such a big obstacle because we have a trip planned in October (me to US), in November (he to Finland) and Christmas together. After that hopefully bring him here. But I'm 44years old and that I cannot change, no matter how much I wish I had met him earlier. I have two beautiful children with my ex 10 and 12 years ago, 2 very easy pregnancies.
I've been crying this morning I don't know what will happen. Rationally I know I'm getting old, jobwise and all it's not the best idea. But I love him dearly and I can't think of a better man to be a father and it's always been my dream to have a third child. I know I can't wait and I have to be brave to go for it now or forever let it be. I cannot get over this thought how wonderful it would be to be a mother to his child. But I know that we need to have a serious talk about our future before we decide anything. Of course I also worry how hard it will be for me mentally if things don't work out at this age for me any more.
Now we have two things slowing this down.... first is long distance which might not be such a big obstacle because we have a trip planned in October (me to US), in November (he to Finland) and Christmas together. After that hopefully bring him here. But I'm 44years old and that I cannot change, no matter how much I wish I had met him earlier. I have two beautiful children with my ex 10 and 12 years ago, 2 very easy pregnancies.
I've been crying this morning I don't know what will happen. Rationally I know I'm getting old, jobwise and all it's not the best idea. But I love him dearly and I can't think of a better man to be a father and it's always been my dream to have a third child. I know I can't wait and I have to be brave to go for it now or forever let it be. I cannot get over this thought how wonderful it would be to be a mother to his child. But I know that we need to have a serious talk about our future before we decide anything. Of course I also worry how hard it will be for me mentally if things don't work out at this age for me any more.
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