Not to un-crush the warnings, but there are lots of ways to do these things. I am typically the over-planning type but the go with the flow approach can work, too. My SO's best friend in his country is engaged to a woman living in my city, she is due to give birth to their baby in mid September and he will come for the birth and the following 3 months. They have done the 3 month visa visit twice before but there is no future planning. They might apply for fiance visa next year and in time get married, they might not. She has a job, bought a bigger flat to accomodate for the baby and Norway has good benifits for single mothers, she will get birth money (for baby equipment) as well as rights to 8 month fully payed (or 12 months 80% payed) maternity leave that she can use to visit her boyfriend with the baby if she wants. I am not sure what exactly the Finnish rules are, but the Nordic countries tend to be pretty similar in these matters.
She is not having a baby to circumvent the law, she wants to have one soon because she is past her peek of giving birth. Yes, a baby will only "help" closing the distance after it is born, it has no legal status as a fetus. What you might want to do, is have the father there for the actual birth, then he can sign up as being the father which may be useful as documentation later on.
She is not having a baby to circumvent the law, she wants to have one soon because she is past her peek of giving birth. Yes, a baby will only "help" closing the distance after it is born, it has no legal status as a fetus. What you might want to do, is have the father there for the actual birth, then he can sign up as being the father which may be useful as documentation later on.
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