44 days to go but missing him so much it hurts...

[farandaway]

It's not that simple. Son is not biologically his and son and his mom are in the US with a green card. So he will lose his son and son will lose his green card if they leave and he can't legally do anything. It's really sad but that's why he has to stay on his tiptoes to try to work it out in a calm reasonable way. She might do it for a revenge, for all I know.
I want him all to myself but I can't push him because I understand his situation. I would not want to risk losing my kids to another country. That would be devastating.

[farandaway]

Update: I went to see him, we talked a lot, about future, about babies, about moving, about everything. We had a great perfect time together, committed for a life time. I feel very good about him and he is coming to see me in a few weeks! Then we'll have Christmas together. He will start hurrying things at his end to be able to be with me next year. This is it in a nutshell

[rhabdoviridae]

That's really exciting, farandaway. I'm very happy for you