I met this guy online about three months ago and started get to know each other more serious, since two months ago. He is an interesting, good looking and a respectful English guy and isn't like another men looking for sex and has never asked me
to sext. He is planning to visit me on next summer.
The first month went well and we had quite well conversations and used to video chat almost everyday.
However, after awhile he seemed a little bit cold and his messages became shorter and he was hardly asking me to have video chat.
Of course he says he is busy and writing his thesis but in my view, if he really liked me he would have
spent even 15 minutes to talk
to me everyday.
Another problem is that he even doesn't say "I like you" back! (He used to say it though) and he doesn't show much emotion. Therefore, I think he must have lost interest in me but he doesn't agree.
Yesterday I told him that I'm fed up, I feel insecure and I don't think he likes me anymore.
He said: " I do like you, I just find it tough because we've never met, There have been times when I chatted to someone online in the past - thought that we got along Then when we met up, it didn't work out or they get bored or annoyed with me so Im worried about getting my heart broken etc etc"
Then I told him I'm gonna set him free and we can remain friends if he wants.
He said that he respects my decision and he will set me free if I want to meet other guys but he also wants me to Skype with him before making
any decision.
I said ok and later at night we skyped.
On Skype he told me that he wants to Skype with me every night again, and that if I would have asked him sooner, he would have spend more time on me (I don't think its acceptable, cause if he liked me he would have spent time on me more without me asking him) he said that he is sorry that he caused me pain and he wants me to be happy even if it means I meet another guy. He said that I can think what the hell I want and the truth is he likes me and he does care about me.
But I don't believe him and I just messaged him and telling him if he really likes me he should change his Facebook status, I guess it's the best way to see whether or not he's playing with me.
to sext. He is planning to visit me on next summer.
The first month went well and we had quite well conversations and used to video chat almost everyday.
However, after awhile he seemed a little bit cold and his messages became shorter and he was hardly asking me to have video chat.
Of course he says he is busy and writing his thesis but in my view, if he really liked me he would have
spent even 15 minutes to talk
to me everyday.
Another problem is that he even doesn't say "I like you" back! (He used to say it though) and he doesn't show much emotion. Therefore, I think he must have lost interest in me but he doesn't agree.
Yesterday I told him that I'm fed up, I feel insecure and I don't think he likes me anymore.
He said: " I do like you, I just find it tough because we've never met, There have been times when I chatted to someone online in the past - thought that we got along Then when we met up, it didn't work out or they get bored or annoyed with me so Im worried about getting my heart broken etc etc"
Then I told him I'm gonna set him free and we can remain friends if he wants.
He said that he respects my decision and he will set me free if I want to meet other guys but he also wants me to Skype with him before making
any decision.
I said ok and later at night we skyped.
On Skype he told me that he wants to Skype with me every night again, and that if I would have asked him sooner, he would have spend more time on me (I don't think its acceptable, cause if he liked me he would have spent time on me more without me asking him) he said that he is sorry that he caused me pain and he wants me to be happy even if it means I meet another guy. He said that I can think what the hell I want and the truth is he likes me and he does care about me.
But I don't believe him and I just messaged him and telling him if he really likes me he should change his Facebook status, I guess it's the best way to see whether or not he's playing with me.
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