Is it a big deal that no one knows about me?

[C.C.]

I think you are the only one who has answered honestly in this post. It is a massive deal and i think she needs to take a step back and think objectively about her situation.

This is an advice thread from 2 years ago. The OP has even ended the relationship since then.

[Clmckenzie]

thanks for replying! Yeah, I know I saw the date, thank you.
However, it doesn't change my opinion that I think what the commenter said was good advice.