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Me and my girlfriend are gamers, addicted gamers. I live in the Philippines, she live in Singapore and playing games is our main way of spending time together. We play a lot of games and are still constantly finding new games to play. Through all those finding, we found Rift. She likes MMOs but I don't that much but I'll play anything with her.
So what I'm worried about is, should I be worried about guys talking/flirting with her in the game? I know that she will play a lot more than me, she played all night while I was sleeping (I have classes the next day). I also know how guys go crazy on a girl gamer. Both of us are in a gaming clan and whenever she posts something on the Facebook group of that clan, she immediately gets tons of replies while other posts don't. There's also a lot of guys who flirt with her on that group, and maybe, in real life too.
Should I be worried like this? The reason why I'm this worried is because, she goes out with her group of friends a lot, out for drinking and stuff. She even went to a sleepover in a hotel with the same group of friends, I didn't even know about this since she only told me when she came home on Jan. 1 afternoon. She can also get a little naughty, even on public. Also at times while we're chatting or talking, she takes a long time to reply. Like, for a moment she's replying so fast and then suddenly, she takes more than one minute to reply which makes me think that she's talking to someone else while we're talking. Are those reasons enough for me to be worried?
One more thing, is it bad to give her everything that she wants? Sometimes while we're talking or playing a game, she says "Oh, I like this so much". Even just now, she just finished playing Rift and she says that she wants to buy gems in-game which costs $20. I said that I can buy it for her and at first she says that she's concerned that it's too expensive, I even told her that she's making me broke but in a joke tone. After that, she was all for it, like she wanted me to buy it for her. I'm always like this when she wants something, and I already bought a lot of things for her. By the way, she rarely gives me any gifts. It's okay with me, but you would think that she would feel a little bit guilty about me buying a lot of stuff for her while she rarely does the same thing for me. So, is what I'm doing wrong?
I'm meeting her in March. Gonna go to Singapore after my finals. Should i just let everything happen till the day we meet? Because I think that she still doesn't trust me fully. I have my doubts too, that's why I'm asking for advice. Just really need a bit of peace in my mind so any advice would be awesome. Would really like to be with her eventually, and I hope that my overthinking will not break our relationship. Any advice?
P.S. I'm sorry if my post is really long. Just thought that it would be better to just post one thread instead of posting multiple.
Me and my girlfriend are gamers, addicted gamers. I live in the Philippines, she live in Singapore and playing games is our main way of spending time together. We play a lot of games and are still constantly finding new games to play. Through all those finding, we found Rift. She likes MMOs but I don't that much but I'll play anything with her.
So what I'm worried about is, should I be worried about guys talking/flirting with her in the game? I know that she will play a lot more than me, she played all night while I was sleeping (I have classes the next day). I also know how guys go crazy on a girl gamer. Both of us are in a gaming clan and whenever she posts something on the Facebook group of that clan, she immediately gets tons of replies while other posts don't. There's also a lot of guys who flirt with her on that group, and maybe, in real life too.
Should I be worried like this? The reason why I'm this worried is because, she goes out with her group of friends a lot, out for drinking and stuff. She even went to a sleepover in a hotel with the same group of friends, I didn't even know about this since she only told me when she came home on Jan. 1 afternoon. She can also get a little naughty, even on public. Also at times while we're chatting or talking, she takes a long time to reply. Like, for a moment she's replying so fast and then suddenly, she takes more than one minute to reply which makes me think that she's talking to someone else while we're talking. Are those reasons enough for me to be worried?
One more thing, is it bad to give her everything that she wants? Sometimes while we're talking or playing a game, she says "Oh, I like this so much". Even just now, she just finished playing Rift and she says that she wants to buy gems in-game which costs $20. I said that I can buy it for her and at first she says that she's concerned that it's too expensive, I even told her that she's making me broke but in a joke tone. After that, she was all for it, like she wanted me to buy it for her. I'm always like this when she wants something, and I already bought a lot of things for her. By the way, she rarely gives me any gifts. It's okay with me, but you would think that she would feel a little bit guilty about me buying a lot of stuff for her while she rarely does the same thing for me. So, is what I'm doing wrong?
I'm meeting her in March. Gonna go to Singapore after my finals. Should i just let everything happen till the day we meet? Because I think that she still doesn't trust me fully. I have my doubts too, that's why I'm asking for advice. Just really need a bit of peace in my mind so any advice would be awesome. Would really like to be with her eventually, and I hope that my overthinking will not break our relationship. Any advice?
P.S. I'm sorry if my post is really long. Just thought that it would be better to just post one thread instead of posting multiple.
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