My partner and I have never met before, we met online and have been together for about a year. Lately his interest in our relationship seems to be declining as he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I feel him becoming more and more distant and it is really starting to hurt. About 4 days ago I sent him a long message about how I feel and how I feel like I can't cope in this relationship anymore and I feel like I'm the only one putting in an effort. He completely agreed with me and told me he felt bad about it and he still loves me and he will try and put more effort in, he even promised. Now it gets tricky. I was happy with his promise to try harder but the thing is, he hasn't. Since his last message about how he'd promise to try harder, he hasn't even tried to talk to me. We haven't spoken since the conversation happened and I feel like I'm at a loss here. He's been online and he's been playing his games but he has made no effort to reach out to me. We usually talk almost everyday so it's kinda thrown me through a whirlwind that he would promise to try harder but his reluctance to even engage in a simple conversation with me over text has baffled me. He's just proven that he is incapable of trying to make this work. I don't know whether to just let him take a few days and think about what I said and see what happens or bring it up with him that I can't do this anymore. It's doing my head in. But that's not the worst of it... I have plans to go to his country in a month to meet him for the first time and spend a few weeks with him, so this is where breaking up makes things extremely complicated. If I do break up with him, do I go see him anyway? Do I cancel the trip?
I'm sorry if this wall of text is quite rambled and confusing. I'm kind of a mess right now.
I'm sorry if this wall of text is quite rambled and confusing. I'm kind of a mess right now.
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