So what's the longest you've gone without contacting your SO?

[BFG]

Generally only when one another are asleep or busy at work.

We chat mostly constantly outside of that.

[Stellasman]

Contact with your loved one is essential I would love more with my SO but I have been told to reduce the amount I contact her. I sucks doesn't it.

[Nneka]

Maybe up to 36 hours or so. I don't make a big deal out of this, since usually we warn each other about going somewhere or being out of reach. One time his phone broke down and I got very worried about this. 1 week is a lot, maybe he is a bit tired fro LD?

[kittyxuchiha11]

My SO is a very private person and early on in our friendship she found it quite hard to handle all the attention i gave her. the longest we've gone without speaking is about 3 days i think, which felt like forever to me. Now we basically talk at least once a say, maybe missing a day if one of us feels particularity overwhelmed. Recently her work hours changed is she now has the weekends off which should be great but ever since i've known her she's always had a Wednesday and Thursday off so the change and some thgin that have happened in both our lives recently have really thrown off our communication.

[bumblebea2009]

Honestly, the longest we go without talking is 10 hours at the most everyday only because of the time difference and we have to sleep at some point. But He's always the first person I talk to before I sleep and as soon as I wake.

[Loveyoumore]

Er... a few hours? lol.

What they said.❤️❤️

[bumblebea2009]

Hahaha!!! Yeah.. basically we talk all the time. So I can't even imagine not talking to my SO for a week.

[Jaac]

My SO and I had some trouble in the past and the longest we've been without communication was probably about 3 weeks.
It was a terrible situation, but he had explained to me why he needed time for himself (not that I underdstood/still don't understand).
I have told him that if he does that again, it's done. I think it's a sign of immaturity and selfishness to shut you SO out. You are in a relationship, and when there are problems, you solve them together. Not alone.

In my opinion, you can't just not contact your SO... You'd want to talk to each other every day, right?!
He owes you an explaination.
I'm sorry if I come across a bit harsh, but this is what I've learned from my past experiences.

How are things going now?

[Adrie85]

The longest we have gone without speaking has been about 22 hours, if we can't talk, we text a lot through messenger.

[TravelingSolider]

I usually hear from him everyday. But today nothing, and I'm worried. He sends at least one nice long email. I can't help but think it's something I did. This is stressful.