Okay, so I have joined this forum because I need some advice on what I should. So I recently met this girl and I fell in love with her. We met after I had liked her comment on a post in a camping and hiking section of a forum. She then messaged me an we began to talk. She started showing signs that she liked me and luckily I was picking up on them because normally flirting goes right over my head. She had told me that she liked me but i was super hesitant to do the same. However i eventually told her and she was super excited. I still had that feeling of "what if its a catfish" in the back of my mind. However we eventually skyped each other we were both relieved. We skyped for two hours that first time and granted it was a bit awkward it was still really nice. So things were moving pretty quick and my feeling toward her had grown quite strong. I decided to tell her that I loved her.
We talked everyday all day when we could for almost 2 months but now all of a sudden it just stopped. one day it was perfectly fine and the next not so much. We were skyping either everyday or every other day and talking a ton. She likes to play video games as do I but she happened to get this new game and thats when it all started. We skyped for maybe an hour the first day she got it and since then we haven't skyped at all and like I said simple messages have gone way down and we would talk about everything. Now its like "so what are you doing today?" another thing is we would say I love you before she would go to sleep and she hasn't said that once since. She also happened to get the flu and is still recovering from it and I know her period is about to start this week.
I'm just wondering if you guys could give any advice as to what may be going on. I'm worried that maybe shes gotten bored with me or that I've been too clingy. Or do you think it may just be because of her having a combo of new game, flu, and period all in such a short period of time.
I should also mention that we were trying to meet up since she is from the Netherlands and im from the U.S. I was planning on going in march during my spring break to stay there for a few day just so we can meet and know if we actually like each other in person. However she has denied that idea since she has exams in march. Our school schedules are almost complete opposites from each other and shes not done until the end of June. She has two breaks one in Feb and one in May but I'll still be in school and those breaks are usually used to prepare for the exams at least thats what she tells me. she would like to come live with me and get a work visa since she is taking a year off from school but like i said I want to meet her before that way we both know we actually like each other if that makes sense. Anyway I just feel like the end of June is a long time to wait before actually meeting her. If thats what we have to do I will. I'm more worried about the pulling away right now though or if i shouldn't worry about it.
thanks, any input would be greatly appreciated.
We talked everyday all day when we could for almost 2 months but now all of a sudden it just stopped. one day it was perfectly fine and the next not so much. We were skyping either everyday or every other day and talking a ton. She likes to play video games as do I but she happened to get this new game and thats when it all started. We skyped for maybe an hour the first day she got it and since then we haven't skyped at all and like I said simple messages have gone way down and we would talk about everything. Now its like "so what are you doing today?" another thing is we would say I love you before she would go to sleep and she hasn't said that once since. She also happened to get the flu and is still recovering from it and I know her period is about to start this week.
I'm just wondering if you guys could give any advice as to what may be going on. I'm worried that maybe shes gotten bored with me or that I've been too clingy. Or do you think it may just be because of her having a combo of new game, flu, and period all in such a short period of time.
I should also mention that we were trying to meet up since she is from the Netherlands and im from the U.S. I was planning on going in march during my spring break to stay there for a few day just so we can meet and know if we actually like each other in person. However she has denied that idea since she has exams in march. Our school schedules are almost complete opposites from each other and shes not done until the end of June. She has two breaks one in Feb and one in May but I'll still be in school and those breaks are usually used to prepare for the exams at least thats what she tells me. she would like to come live with me and get a work visa since she is taking a year off from school but like i said I want to meet her before that way we both know we actually like each other if that makes sense. Anyway I just feel like the end of June is a long time to wait before actually meeting her. If thats what we have to do I will. I'm more worried about the pulling away right now though or if i shouldn't worry about it.
thanks, any input would be greatly appreciated.
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