I finally was able to get through to my SO and got some real answers. My SO and I met online and haven't met in person yet. Things have been pretty rough the last few weeks but they're a little better now. She told me she is worried that I won't like her in person and that she stresses out just thinking about it. She suffers from anxiety and and recently it has gotten worse because of these thoughts I guess.
There is a possibility that we may not like each other when we finally meet but I highly doubt it. There's also the risk on my end that she may not like me when we meet in person but I figure I'll deal with it when that time comes but that fear is deeply rooted in her mind I guess.
Is there anyway I can reassure her? It's hard when it's only words and I can't show her with actual affection how much I care about her.
There is a possibility that we may not like each other when we finally meet but I highly doubt it. There's also the risk on my end that she may not like me when we meet in person but I figure I'll deal with it when that time comes but that fear is deeply rooted in her mind I guess.
Is there anyway I can reassure her? It's hard when it's only words and I can't show her with actual affection how much I care about her.
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