Hi everyone! I'm new here
I'm having a hard time right now and I need some advice from other LDR couples
My SO and I met in May 2014 while he was here in Panamá studying abroad, we got along super well and would spend lots of time together, thenhe left to the US and came back a month after, and it was amazing,he then came and surprised me in october. I was supposed to visit in december but my parents didn't let me travel so I couldnt. after that he came back in summer 2015 and stayed for almost 3 months. after that we had a few arguments because he was upset because I didn't visit him and people would make him feel like he was the only one making an effort to mantain the relationship. but he wasn't nasty and he didn't said ugly things to me.
Finally I went to visit him in December 2015, it was amazing he was happy bought me flowers, he would make comments like "we are finally a real couple" "let's buy our first house soon" " You will be mrs..." he was always proud and he would look at me as if I was magic as he has the world in front of him. I know he meant everything he said.
When I came back to Panama, 10 days later he asks me for a break, he said it took me too long to visit him and that he didnt wanted to resent me. the argument started because I was talking about my plans and he felt I didnt even asked him what did he wanted. he also feels he is holding me back which is not true but his brothers would always make comments that I was too much for him.
he keeps telling me that im his favorite person , that he wants to come visit me soon, that he loves to have me in his arms, that he loves me and misses me. he havent stopped talking to me, he says I'm trying to make money for our future. he also says I don't know everything he is going through there cause i'm not there, he also keeps telling me that I know him better than anyone and that he got lucky with me and tells me I'm amazing and deserve the best etc...
he is having troubles with his job and he can't buy a house because of it and doesn't have vacations. I want to tell him I love him and that I will support him and that I'm there for him and that we can make it through these difficult times but I don't know if I should please help!
I'm having a hard time right now and I need some advice from other LDR couples
My SO and I met in May 2014 while he was here in Panamá studying abroad, we got along super well and would spend lots of time together, thenhe left to the US and came back a month after, and it was amazing,he then came and surprised me in october. I was supposed to visit in december but my parents didn't let me travel so I couldnt. after that he came back in summer 2015 and stayed for almost 3 months. after that we had a few arguments because he was upset because I didn't visit him and people would make him feel like he was the only one making an effort to mantain the relationship. but he wasn't nasty and he didn't said ugly things to me.
Finally I went to visit him in December 2015, it was amazing he was happy bought me flowers, he would make comments like "we are finally a real couple" "let's buy our first house soon" " You will be mrs..." he was always proud and he would look at me as if I was magic as he has the world in front of him. I know he meant everything he said.
When I came back to Panama, 10 days later he asks me for a break, he said it took me too long to visit him and that he didnt wanted to resent me. the argument started because I was talking about my plans and he felt I didnt even asked him what did he wanted. he also feels he is holding me back which is not true but his brothers would always make comments that I was too much for him.
he keeps telling me that im his favorite person , that he wants to come visit me soon, that he loves to have me in his arms, that he loves me and misses me. he havent stopped talking to me, he says I'm trying to make money for our future. he also says I don't know everything he is going through there cause i'm not there, he also keeps telling me that I know him better than anyone and that he got lucky with me and tells me I'm amazing and deserve the best etc...
he is having troubles with his job and he can't buy a house because of it and doesn't have vacations. I want to tell him I love him and that I will support him and that I'm there for him and that we can make it through these difficult times but I don't know if I should please help!
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