Hi all, I'm Jea and I've been dating my bf for almost 7 months now. He's a video games addict where he plays it all day. Sometimes it makes me wonder what will happen if I'll there, will he leave me alone and he'll still be on his computer. Because he plays it all day, and only stop when I videocall him or for him to eat.
I'm really scared of few stuff:
1. He plays video games all day
2. He rarely go outside, he only stay at home. Probably go out once or twice a month
3. He works whenever he wants to and that means probably like once a month or maybe two (he has zero hour contract). I think the last time he worked was in January/ February
4. He always use his "autistic" condition for it. He has ADHD. And he depend on the "service money" from the gov because of his "situation".
5. He depends on his mother, literally on everything. He doesn't do anything around the house even though he lives alone. He always tell his mom to do stuff for him, even to the shop to buy him stuffs that he need.
6. Sometimes I feel like he's not interested on the topics that I try to talk about with him. But on the other side, I always listen and try to understand on the topics that he likes.
So those are my doubts lately. He wasn't like that when I first met him, and It gets worse as the time passes by.
What should I do? Please I need advice.
I'm really scared of few stuff:
1. He plays video games all day
2. He rarely go outside, he only stay at home. Probably go out once or twice a month
3. He works whenever he wants to and that means probably like once a month or maybe two (he has zero hour contract). I think the last time he worked was in January/ February
4. He always use his "autistic" condition for it. He has ADHD. And he depend on the "service money" from the gov because of his "situation".
5. He depends on his mother, literally on everything. He doesn't do anything around the house even though he lives alone. He always tell his mom to do stuff for him, even to the shop to buy him stuffs that he need.
6. Sometimes I feel like he's not interested on the topics that I try to talk about with him. But on the other side, I always listen and try to understand on the topics that he likes.
So those are my doubts lately. He wasn't like that when I first met him, and It gets worse as the time passes by.
What should I do? Please I need advice.
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