ADVICE PLEASE! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I met him in dating online website last August and and have the same goal to get married in the future. And finally we started to know each other.
I'm 22 y.o and he's 25 y.o now
We started chatting on whatsapp to be more comfortable. At first, he always took the initiative to start a chat with me. About 1-2 weeks later we got to know each other, he told me, do I have feelings for him? If so, he will make his visa and want to meet me and my parents to plan the wedding. During those two weeks, I tried to build my feelings for him but I was still not sure that's why he said that to me. And, I asked him some questions to convince myself of him. After, our chat became more intense, my feelings for him increased a little and I decided to start chatting with him first because so far he was always the one who took the initiative to chat with me. After less than two months, I felt strange, because he no longer took the initiative to start a chat with me, instead I had to start it, I know he is busy because he has a lot of work there and I don't want to burden him while I am focusing on my studies, where we don't have enough time to get to know each other better, finally I sacrificed my night's sleep to chat with him because our time difference is 6 hours.
There is something else odd, he always replies to my messages briefly but he often also sends his voice recording to reply longer. He always takes the initiative to start a video call but I always reject it, it seems that during our relationship we only did a video call once, the rest I rejected. I rejected it because I was too embarrassed, because he was the first in my life for 22 years and my English isn't fluently, I was embarrassed and would feel awkward if we chatted later.
And I started to express my concerns to him why he always replied to my messages too short, does he no longer have feelings for me? He answered that he has feelings for me, then I asked him again why he is like that? instead of answering my question, he gave me questions like "Do I have feelings for him? If I do I will give you more" but with questions like that how can I have feelings for him and develop feelings for him where I doubt seeing him not excited like before. Please give me advices
I'm 22 y.o and he's 25 y.o now
We started chatting on whatsapp to be more comfortable. At first, he always took the initiative to start a chat with me. About 1-2 weeks later we got to know each other, he told me, do I have feelings for him? If so, he will make his visa and want to meet me and my parents to plan the wedding. During those two weeks, I tried to build my feelings for him but I was still not sure that's why he said that to me. And, I asked him some questions to convince myself of him. After, our chat became more intense, my feelings for him increased a little and I decided to start chatting with him first because so far he was always the one who took the initiative to chat with me. After less than two months, I felt strange, because he no longer took the initiative to start a chat with me, instead I had to start it, I know he is busy because he has a lot of work there and I don't want to burden him while I am focusing on my studies, where we don't have enough time to get to know each other better, finally I sacrificed my night's sleep to chat with him because our time difference is 6 hours.
There is something else odd, he always replies to my messages briefly but he often also sends his voice recording to reply longer. He always takes the initiative to start a video call but I always reject it, it seems that during our relationship we only did a video call once, the rest I rejected. I rejected it because I was too embarrassed, because he was the first in my life for 22 years and my English isn't fluently, I was embarrassed and would feel awkward if we chatted later.
And I started to express my concerns to him why he always replied to my messages too short, does he no longer have feelings for me? He answered that he has feelings for me, then I asked him again why he is like that? instead of answering my question, he gave me questions like "Do I have feelings for him? If I do I will give you more" but with questions like that how can I have feelings for him and develop feelings for him where I doubt seeing him not excited like before. Please give me advices