Should I catfish my girlfriend to test her loyalty?

[kevinhauser]

So my girlfriend moved away from school and it has been a few months now and she seems to be less interested. She calls, chats less etc.. I have been tempted to catfish her by making a fake facebook account of a guy that lives in her new city to see if she takes the bait. Has anyone done this to test their long distance bf/gf? How do you think she would react if she realized it is a fake profile and thinks its me? Maybe I should use a professional service like baitmydate or something? Has anyone used baitmydate?

[R&R]

We already have a thread on this. I highly suggest you read it. At 36 and discussing her leaving for school - I'm also guessing you work for the slimy company.

https://members.lovingfromadistance....y-cheat-on-you

[Brat*I*am]

I think that if she found out you were even thinking about doing that, it could break her trust in you. Also, it sounds like you already don't trust her. My opinion is that you should start off just by communicating your issues with the relationship and see if she is willing to reciprocate. Communicating needs and having your partner meet them will build trust. Catfishing and baiting will just lead to an obsession to catch her doing something that she may or may not do and that is not healthy for you or your relationship.

[caesura]

To be totally honest, this sounds like a really creepy way to check on the health of your relationship. If you are worried about how she feels, you should have a conversation with her about it. You also need to remember that if her feelings for you are fading, this will be the case even if she doesn't respond to other people flirting with her. If she is losing interest in you, this won't necessarily mean that she would cheat on you while still in the relationship; you're not going to find out how she really feels unless you have an honest conversation with her.

[Moon]

Jesus, man, you've gotta be a troll. No 36 year old man can be this immature Wow.

[lucybelle]

No, I've never thought of doing that because I'm a fucking adult.

[Honour]

Jesus, man, you've gotta be a troll. No 36 year old man can be this immature Wow.

No, I've never thought of doing that because I'm a fucking adult.

That, and we don't have "dumbass" written on our foreheads. You want to test her loyalty? Watch as she either sticks by your side through thick, thin and stupidity, or kicks your sorry ass to the curb. I hope she sees just what a piece of work you are.

[differentcountries]

I would never sink to low as to trick my boyfriend, if I distrusted him that much I would rather end the relationship.

I also don't want to give my money to a company that is trying to sneek past the rules against commercials. I want to use that money for visits, and visa, and security of a life together, in honesty.

[Mims27]

Please tell me you are kidding...?
That's a pretty shitty thing to do or even think about. Grow up.

[CanadianGirl]

No. Just no.

[bartinkopl]

That sounds like a really bad idea to test her trust. If you don't trust her - talk to her.

[MissButterfly]

Definitely working for the company. We (as a community) are better than this, let's ignore and move on

[Miasmata]

Said it before and will say it again: Stop preying on the insecurities of other people and get a goddamn better business model.

[Moon]

Said it before and will say it again: Stop preying on the insecurities of other people and get a goddamn better business model.

But that's exactly what unethical, amoral businesses/people do. They don't care what you say, making money from people's insecurity and weakness *is* their business model. They suck, but all we can do is try to warn people.

[bartinkopl]

But that's exactly what unethical, amoral businesses/people do. They don't care what you say, making money from people's insecurity and weakness *is* their business model. They suck, but all we can do is try to warn people.

Yeah, but that's pathetic...