How often do you see eachother?

[MePlusHim]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months It will be 7 month's on the 8th. When we started dating each other we never met til our 4 month annv My mom drove me out to cali, Fresno for my 16th bday present.. 7hr drive but totally worth it. I got to see him for 3 days 2 night <3. It's was really hard to say goodbye so we didnt want to say it because We were gonna see each other again soon! It's been 88 day's since I last seen him. We plan on making plans to see each other again soon. Its just hard because of school. but We know it will work out. Love always finds a way!

[ST25]

Not often enough, but it'll have to suffice until we can close the distance in the near future (after college).

[SkyWitch131]

For us it's quite varied! I met him once before we made us official, but we'd been talking online (And mostly likely in denial about liking each other) for about 6 months after that... I saw him for half a day at a band competition about 3/4 months after that, but them I didn't see him till our 6 month anniversary... Then it was ever 2 months or so we saw each other, but for about a week or a weekend at a time. We try for every month now, but with me being at college and him working, it's hard to find the time and money...
Because we get cheap rail fares in the UK because we're under 25, we have it easier that a lot of LDR couples, but the time in between is still hard...

[Ciana]

The way it will be working for me once things calm down, generally suck in my opinion and I am still trying to accept that this is how we could be for possibly years.
Once he gets out of Basic Training and gets set at a base, even if he lives at the one only 57 miles from my house, he will only have two days off every month. He said either a weekend every month or a week every three months. While this is a better set up than how it is now while he lives in Indiana, still really hard to cope with. But we see eachother the 26th for a week before he heads off again for some more military shit; I am trying to only focus on that trip, and how wonderful it will be.

[Kiyama]

We've been ld for about a year and we used to see each other every 7-8 weeks or so. Which is, looking at the fact we are over 5000 miles apart, incredible. Due to financial and work reasons, we won't get too see each other for five months in total though... Two months down, three to go. Honestly, I don't mind so much though. I'm in a crucial phase of my job and time flies by so fast! March is already around the corner

[Alsfia]

We get to see eachother a fair amount of time. During terms we manage to see eachother once every 2-3 months in avarege (which makes once to twice a term for me), unfortunately we won't be able to see eachother in 4 months after Christmas since I have marticulations (equivalent to A-levels or high school diploma) coming up and he's going to visit his sister in Japan, but hopefully I can spend a little over a week and (fingers crossed) get a job for the summer in UK
When it comes to money it sometimes gets hard, I pay everything myself and it's hard to watch the savings account get just a little more drained every time and then desperately try to find another job/time for applying and still find one flexible enough to allow me to see my SO as frequently as I do now. Still, not too much to complain about, I have the best boss ever and my SO's family is rather well off so they don't mind paying for his trips over here
I find the best thing to do is to book as soon as possible to have a concrete date to look forward to (and avoid double booking, my SO's family travels a lot, they are yet to visit me over here :o ) and to concentrate on the good memories from last time. I myself just look forward to Christmas now and a lot of time alone with my SO, getting an NIN number and then booking the next flight Best of luck to both of you, I'm sure you'll find the distance worth the chance to get to know eachother in a way totally different from being close distance and come closer to eachother

[Mellow]

Seeing eachother that much sounds like heaving to me though...
I can't see my SO that often. Next August.... My SO is probably going to study abroad for awhile after August, in France so it isn't that far away. Means I could visit him in weekends and holidays when I dont have to work.
Mhnm... but well. When he goes back to the USA after some months, I'll have to cope with not seeing him...untill the next summer.
It'll be alright, eventually, I have faith in it.
It will get better when we both are out of school in a few years I guess.

[chibij14]

We want to try and see each other every 3-4 weeks... My first visit is coming up (Total time apart: 3 weeks & 4 days) so we'll see how it goes.

[efish1042]

My SO and I averaged about once every 6 weeks. Sometimes it was two weeks, sometimes it was 10 or 12 weeks. Now, we shouldn't be apart more than three weeks at a time! (Until I go study abroad...)

[kayla_622]

My So and I don't really have an average amount of time we meet up. We saw each other two weekends in a row in September, skipped a week, then he came to my house and stayed a week, 4 weeks passed and I went to his town to see him for 5 days and then waited another 5 weeks and now I will be seeing him tomorrow.

After the beginning of the year, since there are no major holiday's we are both planning to try and meet every 2-3 weeks at an in-between city since its a 10 hour drive to either of our homes.

[itzmesisca]

Once a year . . .
Or maybe once every two or three years :'(