I dread the first few days after leaving my SO because I know how miserable I will be even thinking of it makes me upset and feel sick, I wish I could transport myself immediately to him and back I wouldn't miss work or uni
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Said goodbye to my SO today.....
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Said goodbye to my boyfriend today, just a couple of hours ago after having spent 2 months together. It really feels horrible, and I just wish we could be back together in each others arms once again even if I know it's impossible - work for him and school for me. It just tears me apart to see him cry, and it really feels like someone has taken your heart out and stomped it to pieces :/ Right now it's 3 months until we'll see each other again when I'm flying over to see him, but right now... Ugh, it feels like it's forever until the day comes when I can go to the airport and be happy about it :/ But, on the other hand we both know it's just a matter of months until we're moving in together, and we've gone 13 months so far so what's another 8? I love him, and I know he loves me, and the wait makes it so much more worth it once you're together again So keep your head up and try to make it through, it will get easier with time
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It's hard to walk away, I know that I would list saying goodbye #1 on the worst I have ever felt (and that beats being sick and such). But I remember my SO and his family always used to say "it's not goodbye, it's see you later" and that what I kept repeating in my head as I cried and cried on the plane ride home.
You two love each other, no matter how far and that's what counts. Don't let anything stop you from feeling that way, not even a very hard goodbye. Time heals
OH and shopping helps! :P
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I hate saying goodbye!
The thing that helps me most is to make plans for the next visit...First met online: June, 2010
First met in person: August, 2011 (See the story of our first visit)
Second visit: December, 2011 (Christmas and New Years together!)
Third visit together: August, 2012
Fourth visit: December 2012 (Christmas and New Years together!)
Fifth visit: July 2013 (2 weeks here in Canada)
Sixth visit: December 2013 (Christmas and New Years together again and I finally met his mother!)
Next visit: Unknown... for now but coming up ASAP
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