So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months now. We have a strong relationship and those 3 months have been the best. We both are willing to wait and even though it's hard...we know that we can get through the distance.
She went on a vacation with her family and she was going to be gone a week. The hotel she stayed in only provided limited internet and the only way we could really talk is through Kik which i guess ate a lot of the limited data that she had.
Although the 4th day i saw she posted a video on instagram and i saw that she met new people and she was with some guys. I got paranoid...i had a terrible past and have been cheated on and so ever since what happened...i became very cautious(maybe too cautious). I told her i was getting worried and that i trust that she won't be doing anything that would hurt me. She swear she wouldn't but i still kept getting worried. after 2 days i was going back and forth at her and i made a mistake of doing so. I was just so worried and i guess i had trust issues during that time but i was also jealous...i never really had any problems trusting her before but we really didn't talk very much and I missed her a lot...but i understood that she is in vacation and she should make the best of it and spend some family time.
But I sent a snapchat to her telling her to check her Kik because i left a message saying that i felt better and not so worried anymore and that i was sorry for being so negative. But her cousin replied to me saying that she was in the pool and could not talk, Although a couple minutes before that i knew she not in the pool and i knew the time difference and it was almost in the evening in where she was at...she posted a photo a couple minutes before i sent a snapchat.
I told her to tell her that i was sorry to be bothering them and i told her that i'll be giving her some space since her cousin said that she does need space.
And now we haven't talked ever since and i left one last message saying how i felt and how sorry i was that i have done her wrong and made a mistake by not fully trusting her...because i knew she fully trusts me...i was not fair and i became clingy and needy during those 2 days of continuously telling her how worried i was. I regret my actions and have learned my lessons. She saw and read the last message i left and i told her that i'll gladly give her some space and that she should message me when she's ready. She just got back from her vacation as well and is still on her fall break but i wanna know what i should and would like to hear what you guys think.
She went on a vacation with her family and she was going to be gone a week. The hotel she stayed in only provided limited internet and the only way we could really talk is through Kik which i guess ate a lot of the limited data that she had.
Although the 4th day i saw she posted a video on instagram and i saw that she met new people and she was with some guys. I got paranoid...i had a terrible past and have been cheated on and so ever since what happened...i became very cautious(maybe too cautious). I told her i was getting worried and that i trust that she won't be doing anything that would hurt me. She swear she wouldn't but i still kept getting worried. after 2 days i was going back and forth at her and i made a mistake of doing so. I was just so worried and i guess i had trust issues during that time but i was also jealous...i never really had any problems trusting her before but we really didn't talk very much and I missed her a lot...but i understood that she is in vacation and she should make the best of it and spend some family time.
But I sent a snapchat to her telling her to check her Kik because i left a message saying that i felt better and not so worried anymore and that i was sorry for being so negative. But her cousin replied to me saying that she was in the pool and could not talk, Although a couple minutes before that i knew she not in the pool and i knew the time difference and it was almost in the evening in where she was at...she posted a photo a couple minutes before i sent a snapchat.
I told her to tell her that i was sorry to be bothering them and i told her that i'll be giving her some space since her cousin said that she does need space.
And now we haven't talked ever since and i left one last message saying how i felt and how sorry i was that i have done her wrong and made a mistake by not fully trusting her...because i knew she fully trusts me...i was not fair and i became clingy and needy during those 2 days of continuously telling her how worried i was. I regret my actions and have learned my lessons. She saw and read the last message i left and i told her that i'll gladly give her some space and that she should message me when she's ready. She just got back from her vacation as well and is still on her fall break but i wanna know what i should and would like to hear what you guys think.
Good luck.
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