Okay, so my girlfriend has not been honest in the past. She's was off flirting with another guy and he joked around with her with sexual comments. Not cool. Anyway, I was on the verge of breaking up with her over this, because this isn't the first time she has lied to me, or done something like this.
Don't get me wrong.
She's not NEARLY as bad of a person as you think she is, but naturally I've developed worries. I worry almost everyday (minor, compared to the beginning..) and she has insisted they're not friends anymore and that she has stopped talking to him because she agrees they both crossed the line and she doesn't want someone like that to tear us apart. I have since made minor gestures to see if she has intentions of becoming friends with him, but she tells me she has absolutely no thought about it.
Here's the deal.
I have a choice. That kid texted me recently, saying he was sorry. Now a fact I have left out- this guy used to be one of my best friends. Currently, I'm faced with an option. I could ask him if they have been talking, despite what she has said to me, and if he says yes (which he will tell me the truth, he's actually incredibly honest despite the fact we're no longer friends.) I'd just break up with her...
OR
I can avoid seeking another problem and let this thing become something of the past, but that takes time, and everyday I worry...
What choice should I choose..?
Thanks, all.
Don't get me wrong.
She's not NEARLY as bad of a person as you think she is, but naturally I've developed worries. I worry almost everyday (minor, compared to the beginning..) and she has insisted they're not friends anymore and that she has stopped talking to him because she agrees they both crossed the line and she doesn't want someone like that to tear us apart. I have since made minor gestures to see if she has intentions of becoming friends with him, but she tells me she has absolutely no thought about it.
Here's the deal.
I have a choice. That kid texted me recently, saying he was sorry. Now a fact I have left out- this guy used to be one of my best friends. Currently, I'm faced with an option. I could ask him if they have been talking, despite what she has said to me, and if he says yes (which he will tell me the truth, he's actually incredibly honest despite the fact we're no longer friends.) I'd just break up with her...
OR
I can avoid seeking another problem and let this thing become something of the past, but that takes time, and everyday I worry...
What choice should I choose..?
Thanks, all.
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