Hi guys !
Just wanted to say that I've read a lot of posts on this subject but none of them really quite looked like my relationship so I needed to make a post to get advices ^^
So I met my long distance lover 11 months ago, we used to play video games and talk all night long about our lives and we soon realized that we really liked each other, around December. But the thing is, even though we live in the same country, we're still ~1000 thousands miles away. We're both 14 so we're not really free to go and see each other, because of something that really bothers us... our parents. I personnally am afraid my family (especially my older brother) would judge me for being in a long distance relationship and try to make me cut contact with him, and it's the same for him. We just don't want to loose contact, we love each other very much.
We planned on meeting in July 2019 but I didn't tell my parents about anything yet and neither did him, and I don't think my parents will take it well if I introduce them to my lover the day I meet him xD
Also it's a serious relationship, we also planned on living together in 3 years when I finish my high school, because he has a flat in the capital city of our country where we both planned to make our upper studies. Again we're really in love and I'm convinced we're going to make it, but I also fear that it won't be possible without my parents understanding.
And I'm sure they would love him if they knew him ! He's exactly my type and the type my parents would love too ! xD The distance is our only problem I really think he's the love of my life. We told his best friend about our relationshup, and I also told my best friend, and they don't mind it
Still,I'm afraid of my family's judgement. And the distance hurts really bad too. I crave us hugging Maybe, if we tell our parents about it, we'll be able to meet in person sooner ? But I'm afraid of taking the risk. And my mom doesn't like me talking to people I don't know over the internet, she thinks everyone is a pedophile or something. What should I do ?
Thank you for reading ! And sorry if I made mistakes, English isn't my first language
Just wanted to say that I've read a lot of posts on this subject but none of them really quite looked like my relationship so I needed to make a post to get advices ^^
So I met my long distance lover 11 months ago, we used to play video games and talk all night long about our lives and we soon realized that we really liked each other, around December. But the thing is, even though we live in the same country, we're still ~1000 thousands miles away. We're both 14 so we're not really free to go and see each other, because of something that really bothers us... our parents. I personnally am afraid my family (especially my older brother) would judge me for being in a long distance relationship and try to make me cut contact with him, and it's the same for him. We just don't want to loose contact, we love each other very much.
We planned on meeting in July 2019 but I didn't tell my parents about anything yet and neither did him, and I don't think my parents will take it well if I introduce them to my lover the day I meet him xD
Also it's a serious relationship, we also planned on living together in 3 years when I finish my high school, because he has a flat in the capital city of our country where we both planned to make our upper studies. Again we're really in love and I'm convinced we're going to make it, but I also fear that it won't be possible without my parents understanding.
And I'm sure they would love him if they knew him ! He's exactly my type and the type my parents would love too ! xD The distance is our only problem I really think he's the love of my life. We told his best friend about our relationshup, and I also told my best friend, and they don't mind it
Still,I'm afraid of my family's judgement. And the distance hurts really bad too. I crave us hugging Maybe, if we tell our parents about it, we'll be able to meet in person sooner ? But I'm afraid of taking the risk. And my mom doesn't like me talking to people I don't know over the internet, she thinks everyone is a pedophile or something. What should I do ?
Thank you for reading ! And sorry if I made mistakes, English isn't my first language
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