I personally think marriage would just sorta kinda make the bond officially to everyone to see etc
For me (even if I agree with the fact that its basically just a piece of paper) its still important and I doubt that I could live with the love of my life forever without gettin married.
And usually I think gettin married for the sake of havin residency is probably the worst thing you could do but then again it depends on the situation.
Like myself, me and my bf truely love each other and even if it wasnt official yet but he has asked me a bunch of times if I wanna marry him and if I had the chance to I think I really would (seein as we're both pretty young I'd probably go for bein engaged for a while and then but anyways).
We have both talked about it and he has offered me himself to basically get married formally so I would get all the paper stuff and we could move together and end the distance, and he said that he would marry me anyway cause he loves me.
And yes thinkin about it makes me feel weird but honestly I'd rather choose this way if I knew I couldnt end the distance any other way for the next years (like 5 or more).
Cause I know Im not doin it for myself so I be like "oh look im so cool i live in the states now" or wherever, Im doing it for my relationship and for the love of my life.
For me (even if I agree with the fact that its basically just a piece of paper) its still important and I doubt that I could live with the love of my life forever without gettin married.
And usually I think gettin married for the sake of havin residency is probably the worst thing you could do but then again it depends on the situation.
Like myself, me and my bf truely love each other and even if it wasnt official yet but he has asked me a bunch of times if I wanna marry him and if I had the chance to I think I really would (seein as we're both pretty young I'd probably go for bein engaged for a while and then but anyways).
We have both talked about it and he has offered me himself to basically get married formally so I would get all the paper stuff and we could move together and end the distance, and he said that he would marry me anyway cause he loves me.
And yes thinkin about it makes me feel weird but honestly I'd rather choose this way if I knew I couldnt end the distance any other way for the next years (like 5 or more).
Cause I know Im not doin it for myself so I be like "oh look im so cool i live in the states now" or wherever, Im doing it for my relationship and for the love of my life.
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