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This isn't really about last names, but has to do with being identified by your husband slash sexism. When I got Malian nationality and went to get my national id card, there is a section where they put your address and mine reads:
[Neighborhood]
[Street #] [Door #]
At the home of her husband, [husband's first and last name]
I was like..."Say what? That's my house. How do you know that I'm not the one paying for it?" They said that it doesn't matter...they either put that you live at your father's house or your husband's house.
Okay this is getting off topic, but one of my friends recently went to apply for CAJA (national healthcare) and they asked what his profession was. He said the equivalent of "house husband" (he doesn't work, his wife does). And they got all confused and in the end refused to give it to him because it's okay for a woman to not work, but not okay for a man to not work.
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