We're actually going to do it!

[SeeRat]

Congratulations.. so happy for you..

[stormy]

Congratulations!!

[80anthea]

Well our first wedding dilemma, by nooo means the most important, is what to do about our first dance. We both like rock, indie type music (e.g. foo fighters) and neither of us dance. .... we had a hilarious attempt last night which ended up in the discussion about our first dance. There are a few options. ...a) don't have one, b) just have something comical or c) attempting it properly and practising lots.

Suggestions are very welcome!

[Ahava]

Getting married to my ex we skipped it. The venue was old and the bearings of it wouldn't have taken the pressure of dancing. Neither of us could really dance, so skipped it.

But I would vote for the comical. Or then it could be a slow dance too. The practising etc sounds stressing to me. But if you guys wanna go for it, then do it!

[80anthea]

I skipped it last time with my ex too, as we didn't really have a party after just a bbq and there wasn't really dancing. It's so long down the list of things to sort out it's kind of funny that we're both so concerned about it.

[Zephii]

We went with C - practice. We learnt how to dance by watching youtube videos and sneaking off to practice in secret. Dancing is fun and intimate, I wish we had the excuse to do it more often!

But really, what do you both want? If skill and venue and people's opinions were not factors, what would you be left with?

[lucybelle]

Do what you want! Dancing is pretty important to my SO and I, he's an excellent dancer. So leaving it out would be very strange for us. But every couple is different

[squeeker]

Congratulations! Good luck with the wedding planning!

As for the dancing.. my SO and I are not big dancers either... I think we will probably be leaving it out of our wedding in the future.. though things could change and we might learn.. but I think you can have a great wedding without dancing. Though learning might be fun if you both are up for it!