We didn't decide between a big wedding and a small one.. we just had the wedding we wanted to have. And I think that's my advice - have the wedding you want to have. (I don't really agree with the "every girl wants a big wedding" thing. But then, I'm more interested in planning births than a wedding!)
You can still have all your DIY etc for a smaller wedding. We had nearly 40 people. I wanted a formal event, so it was formal, and we paid extra for a fancy sit-down dinner. I made the centrepieces, "bouquets" (they weren't flowers) etc, he made the cake. We saved money on the parts that didn't matter to us (no flowers, I bought my dress online from china for $200, shoes from payless for $20 etc) so that we could have the things that did matter to us.
At the end of the day there are a lot more useful things to do with your money than have a wedding, but life is about experiences more than about owning stuff (imo, obviously). If a wedding is an experience you want to have, then invest in it. If it isn't, don't.
You can still have all your DIY etc for a smaller wedding. We had nearly 40 people. I wanted a formal event, so it was formal, and we paid extra for a fancy sit-down dinner. I made the centrepieces, "bouquets" (they weren't flowers) etc, he made the cake. We saved money on the parts that didn't matter to us (no flowers, I bought my dress online from china for $200, shoes from payless for $20 etc) so that we could have the things that did matter to us.
At the end of the day there are a lot more useful things to do with your money than have a wedding, but life is about experiences more than about owning stuff (imo, obviously). If a wedding is an experience you want to have, then invest in it. If it isn't, don't.
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