my BF and i have been together almost 2 years. we were apart due to distance in the beginning but since have been together every night and day. he couldnt stand to be away from me and showed me love every single day. alot happened... hes an addict (recovering) and he ended up getting lost and off track BAD he was like a total different person and he broke it off. not without crying alot and acting very very confused. anyway, his mother ended up paying for a flight to another state and got him a job the MINUTE we split.... i cant understand why? she seems to not want to deal with him and his issues which is why i think he has the problems to begin with. she never showed him much love unless by buying things and money.
days before he had to leave he contacted me(only 3 weeks after the break up). he told me he was very sorry and made the biggest mistake of his life. he f*d up big time and postponed his flight because he had to see me. i let him come to see me, at this point id moved a few hours away. he confessed hed relapsed and felt very sad and remorseful for lieing and saying he left because it was something id done. he said he just got so lost and then his mother bought the flight and got him that job and he hadnt had any time to think. we ended up reconciling it was bliss. amazing. he was back to himself.
he is back to himself. he had to go to the other state because his mother flipped when she heard he didnt want to. she told him she'd keep all the money he got loaned if he didn't. he felt bad and obligated. i told him id wait. it is only a seasonal job and ive waited before.
anyway. now here we are its feb. he left a month ago. he has a smart phone. we have a couples app and texting. he non stop texts me , i mean EVERY SINGLE MINUTE. he tells me he loves me non stop and had decided not long after going there he was just coming home once we had the money for a flight. about 5 days ago he broke his phone. he needs it fixed. he is borrowing a very old lame phone that barely texts. and no sim card, SO he can only message me on Facebook and only with WIFI. he has NO WIFI in his apt. he has no car there. his brother lives about an hour away and he can and does take a bus there and calls me maybe every other day from his bros phone. when he has WIFI hes at work so barely messages. and when at his brothers he still barely messages. he says its the phone, its hard to text on and he gets frustrated.
hes a BIG time smart phone user. this just plain sucks, to go from non stop communication and skype to nothing barely. he says he loves me everyday but some nights cant go to his brothers and therefore i dont hear from him=(
its hard to not get weird in my head and wonder if he just stopped because he doesnt miss me. i guess its not that, but im a girl and really need some reassurance lol especially with everything thats happened. this AM i woke to a message that said he loves me so much and cant wait to come home.... then mid afternoon before work was done i assume he said i love you and ill try to message as much as i can. but nothing since=(
help me NOT go crazy in my thoughts of everything i know isnt true???=)
days before he had to leave he contacted me(only 3 weeks after the break up). he told me he was very sorry and made the biggest mistake of his life. he f*d up big time and postponed his flight because he had to see me. i let him come to see me, at this point id moved a few hours away. he confessed hed relapsed and felt very sad and remorseful for lieing and saying he left because it was something id done. he said he just got so lost and then his mother bought the flight and got him that job and he hadnt had any time to think. we ended up reconciling it was bliss. amazing. he was back to himself.
he is back to himself. he had to go to the other state because his mother flipped when she heard he didnt want to. she told him she'd keep all the money he got loaned if he didn't. he felt bad and obligated. i told him id wait. it is only a seasonal job and ive waited before.
anyway. now here we are its feb. he left a month ago. he has a smart phone. we have a couples app and texting. he non stop texts me , i mean EVERY SINGLE MINUTE. he tells me he loves me non stop and had decided not long after going there he was just coming home once we had the money for a flight. about 5 days ago he broke his phone. he needs it fixed. he is borrowing a very old lame phone that barely texts. and no sim card, SO he can only message me on Facebook and only with WIFI. he has NO WIFI in his apt. he has no car there. his brother lives about an hour away and he can and does take a bus there and calls me maybe every other day from his bros phone. when he has WIFI hes at work so barely messages. and when at his brothers he still barely messages. he says its the phone, its hard to text on and he gets frustrated.
hes a BIG time smart phone user. this just plain sucks, to go from non stop communication and skype to nothing barely. he says he loves me everyday but some nights cant go to his brothers and therefore i dont hear from him=(
its hard to not get weird in my head and wonder if he just stopped because he doesnt miss me. i guess its not that, but im a girl and really need some reassurance lol especially with everything thats happened. this AM i woke to a message that said he loves me so much and cant wait to come home.... then mid afternoon before work was done i assume he said i love you and ill try to message as much as i can. but nothing since=(
help me NOT go crazy in my thoughts of everything i know isnt true???=)
It's pretty obvious he loves you. Hold on to that, when you start worrying. But, don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you, just normal frustration from having communication curtailed so drastically. Been there done that several times. 
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