I sent the list of 89 things LDR couples can do to my SO and he FREAKED out on me.
i try to do SOMETHING nice and thats what happens.
i try to do SOMETHING nice and thats what happens.
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thats too bad : (
what do you mean by freaked out? maybe he was overwhelmed, thinking you were expecting too much of him all at once?Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again.
And meeting again, after moments or lifetime, is certain for those who are friends.
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yeah. i dont know. i havent gotten to talk to him much and i am hoping things get better when he gets back to the FOB...Comment
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wow, I think that's the first time I've ever heard of our list getting such a strong negative reaction!
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That's kinda weird... why would he do that??In a relationship with
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Exactly what I thought too when I read it....Originally posted by Andy View Post
Hope things get better.Comment
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Very strange reaction. I think it could have been he thought you expected him to do ALL 89 toute suite. I am sure when you get to talk a bit, you'll find his reasons for tripping make sense, and that they are things you can reassure him aren't what you meant at all.Comment
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When I sent the list to my guy a few months ago (I believe there were 70 something things at the time) his response was, "All of those kinds of lists are the same. It won't have anything original on it or anything we haven't tried." ^^;
Just talk to him and don't mention the list for a little while. Though, you might want to try using some of the sites from the list and if he asks you where you found the sites (after enjoying whatever it was) you tell him it was from this list. At least, that's my suggestion.Comment
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ha, I think the first page of ideas is similiar to other lists, but no other list has that many activities.Comment
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That's a strange reaction indeed.
How exactly did he freak out? Did he act like he didn't wanna do them?
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Hmmmmm that's very strange indeed ... But I'm sure there's an explanation to it and you'll get to hear it when you talk to him.
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Yeah- It's odd... My only guess is that he is having a bad day and felt like your sending the list meant that you weren't happy with him and what he does for you- Like you're sending it to push him to do more for/with you. I'm sure once he's in a better place he'll be more open to some of the ideas. As others suggested, try incorporating some of the ideas. If he says he really enjoys one, let him know that it came from the list and that there are lots of other fun things that you both could try...
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meh. hes just... stressed. thats all. it will be better after rnr.Comment
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Can I get that list?Enamorada de ti!!Comment
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