Hello everyone,
When I visited SO, sparks flew, chemistry happened and we had a great time in general. But let’s keep it real, SOME of us have gone to visit or have been visited by our SO and experienced some level of drama from “people around”. It could be a friend, a family member or some random stranger. I hope in many cases the experience didn’t adversely affect your relationship with SO, otherwise I’m sorry it happened to you. I experienced first-hand drama, which did not adversely affect my relationship with SO I might add.
I had two separate episodes, actually from 2 separate people and I was equally surprised by both (how naive). One experience is longer the other is quicker so I’ll share the long one first and at a later post the quicker one. If you’ve experienced drama from someone else during the visit that made you go: What the Hell???!!!
Please share, as I believe it is important to dispatch this kind of information so LDR newbies (and others) know that BS can happens during visits from other people than SO. That it is OK and doesn't always mean the relationship is doomed or that you are some ODD bean, it may as well mean, life happens and drama shows up even for us at strange intervals… and yes from surprising people..
Please share your experience, I’d like to read about all that drama… maybe I’m trying to validate my own senses and sensibilities here… and I'm confident you'll point out where I erred and that is ok with me.
I will post my story on the next screen to break up the length
Happy reading...
When I visited SO, sparks flew, chemistry happened and we had a great time in general. But let’s keep it real, SOME of us have gone to visit or have been visited by our SO and experienced some level of drama from “people around”. It could be a friend, a family member or some random stranger. I hope in many cases the experience didn’t adversely affect your relationship with SO, otherwise I’m sorry it happened to you. I experienced first-hand drama, which did not adversely affect my relationship with SO I might add.
I had two separate episodes, actually from 2 separate people and I was equally surprised by both (how naive). One experience is longer the other is quicker so I’ll share the long one first and at a later post the quicker one. If you’ve experienced drama from someone else during the visit that made you go: What the Hell???!!!
Please share, as I believe it is important to dispatch this kind of information so LDR newbies (and others) know that BS can happens during visits from other people than SO. That it is OK and doesn't always mean the relationship is doomed or that you are some ODD bean, it may as well mean, life happens and drama shows up even for us at strange intervals… and yes from surprising people..
Please share your experience, I’d like to read about all that drama… maybe I’m trying to validate my own senses and sensibilities here… and I'm confident you'll point out where I erred and that is ok with me.
I will post my story on the next screen to break up the length
Happy reading...
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