Skype, physical apperance first meeting

[Gata]

Hahahaha well Iīm kind of concerned of that little details in my face, I think that maybe Iīm just really nervous and sometimes I donīt know how to control my thoughts and also, Iīm really paranoid with my pictures, I donīt know if the images in them are me, for me, of course they are, but people see the same?

I think Itīs something Iīd love to know, but I know Iīll never know for sure!

[Gata]

I feel you!
That happened with me before, no with boyfriends or prospects, but with female friends and cousins that say "Thatīs not you... I canīt recognice you, thatīs not your face"
And I develop some insecurity because I donīt really know, as I told you, I never use filters because I want to be honest, he is going to come to here and thatīs a big deal, I want to stand up in front of them as everything Iīm

He know my height, my weight, he have seen a lot of me too, but sometimes Iīm afraid that the camera lie to him for a strange reason.

[AWC5182]

I don't know if you had your Skype Date yet, but I'd be curious to see how it went!

I completely understand where you are coming from. I have been told by past dates and even my friends that I don't come off the same in my pictures. Not that I look different, it's just that I know how to take a good picture (my father was a photographer). So pictures always are the best version of myself.

I was worried the first time I had a skype date with my bf. Actually I bugged him for weeks before skype for him to send me a selfie. He didn't smile in any of his online dating pictures and I just wanted to verify he had teeth. I quickly saw he was a lot heavier than the pictures he posted. Skype, same thing, but by the time we got to skype, we'd been talking so long I think I could have rolled out of bed without brushing my hair and he would have not cared and still found me beautiful.

If yours is anything like mine, he's already made up his mind on you and regardless if you look the same or different, I'm sure he just wants to see you.

[Guevanak81]

The answer is yes! When we 1st video chatted we starred at each other with our mouths open for a while lol. But meeting in person was way different. To me he looked way better in person and he felt the same way. I knew that it would not be completely real until we met in person. There are things that you experience in person like a connection and that "Spark" that can't happen over the phone or video chatting.

[Ambert]

My SO looked exactly the same. It was just really different to actually stand next to him, you know. You know how they look, they will usually look the same (as long as they are not covered in make up or having a weird angle on the webcam) in real, but still, it's just special and amazing :3

[vicks5721]

The only thing I noticed when I first met my fiance was that he was taller than I imagined on skype, and he says I am shorter than he imagined, in a good way though. We had told each other how tall we are, just you notice things like that sometimes, also he seemed thinner, but that could of been he hadn't eaten lately travelling to England. Then after some days we just got used to being together in person and stop noticing those details.Appearance isn't important though, what is important is that your SO loves you for who you are.

[bubblehits]

I noticed a difference from pictures and to how my SO looked when we met for the first time last Sunday. He sounded completely different to when we are on skype too and to be honest it took me a few days to get used to it but I love him regardless. He's so much cuter in person in the way he acts and talks, on skype he was more reserved and quiet in reality it's likes he's a different person.

He's amazing, I wish you luck on your trip.

[Nikkolemegan528]

When me and my boyfriend started to Skype, I would always to get nervous to see him, now I Skype with him almost everyday. I went t school with my boyfriend a long time ago so I sort of remember what he looks like but then he moved to Texas and now he looks 10 times different. Although me and my So haven't seen one another physically since then I would have to say that when you Skype him and see him in person there is no dramatic change. So your appearance looks the same to him in photos, and Skype.

Remember he loves you for you! You have nothing to worry about

[Shauny]

Skype can make you appear a little larger, and the lack of detail often misleads to my SO thinking my skin is smooth like a baby's bottom. A good thing to do is take some photos of yourself and send them to your SO. Cameras don't lie if you don't use filters and such.
It doesn't matter anyway. My SO hates her stretchmarks but I've never actually seen them in skypes details. I know they're there though but I don't mind one bit because I love her all will be fine if they love you!

[AnnMarie Green]

I think at some point, most of us go through all this.. I can remember putting off skyping forever.. I am 16 years older than my husband, and it was fairly early on.. I was scared to death for SSOOOOO many different reasons!! But, I eventually gave in.. Awhile later, after we met in person, I asked what he thought when he first saw me, because he had taken his glasses off, and his eyes got wide, and he put them back on.. And he told me it was because he had never seen anyone more beautiful.. He also told me about 6 months before we got married that as soon as he heard my voice, he knew I was the one.. I asked how, and he said he had been hearing that voice in his head forever.. He still loves when we talk.. Soooo, long story short, don't be frightened!! Usually, by the time you see each other, much deeper feelings are already established, and you won't regret it!! Blessings..

[Wicked Whimsy]

I felt similarly with my SO and our first meet in person because I am a very self conscious person, but honestly if you have video chatted or Skyped, you have seen each other pretty much the same way you will see them in person just a lot better quality! Personally, when I was on camera with my boyfriend I always thought he looked much younger than his age and was worried people may think I was robbing the cradle lol but when we met face to face he looked more like his age but I really couldn't think of anything other than how happy I was that he was finally with me! Just relax and you will be fine. Good luck!!