SO and I are planning second visit and we just hit a wall and we don't know what to do.
Plans are obviously spending time together but the question is where?
He lives in South Carolina, so the obvious would be to go there, but all his family lives up in Virginia. He wants me to know the town he lives atn and he also wants for me to meet his family and get to see his hometown. We had already agreed on going to Virginia first and then on a second visit to go to SC however we are starting to hesitate on that. Today I was talking to my mom and even when I have hers and all my family support, she is still concerned about me going to VA instead of SC. I am not very easily persuaded on changing my mind but maybe she does have a point. She has been mentioning that it would be good for me to see where and how he lives, who he relates on the daily life and see his everyday routine because wether I like it or not his family live 7 hours from where he is at and they are not on his every day life. My mom is kind of a paraoid and she was mentioning something about things that he could be hiding... Obviously I know there isn't anything like that and I trust him completely, but I understand where she comes from, even if I don't like it sometimes you need to see things for yourself to be at ease right and besides she is an oldschool mom and its her job to be concerned about those stuff, right ? Specially when it is the first times to visit and get a little bit on insight on the daily life. So now the doubt is right there... where to go to?
I still have time to figure it out, but here is where you guys come into place... any suggestions?
Plans are obviously spending time together but the question is where?
He lives in South Carolina, so the obvious would be to go there, but all his family lives up in Virginia. He wants me to know the town he lives atn and he also wants for me to meet his family and get to see his hometown. We had already agreed on going to Virginia first and then on a second visit to go to SC however we are starting to hesitate on that. Today I was talking to my mom and even when I have hers and all my family support, she is still concerned about me going to VA instead of SC. I am not very easily persuaded on changing my mind but maybe she does have a point. She has been mentioning that it would be good for me to see where and how he lives, who he relates on the daily life and see his everyday routine because wether I like it or not his family live 7 hours from where he is at and they are not on his every day life. My mom is kind of a paraoid and she was mentioning something about things that he could be hiding... Obviously I know there isn't anything like that and I trust him completely, but I understand where she comes from, even if I don't like it sometimes you need to see things for yourself to be at ease right and besides she is an oldschool mom and its her job to be concerned about those stuff, right ? Specially when it is the first times to visit and get a little bit on insight on the daily life. So now the doubt is right there... where to go to?
I still have time to figure it out, but here is where you guys come into place... any suggestions?
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