Hi everyone,
I am mailing/ skyping with a long distance friend for 2 years now. He lives in the USA and I live in Europe. We both have to figure out if we like eachother that much that we really want to commit to eachother and take the relationship a step further.
Now last week he told me he was going to be in Europe next week for his work. He asked me if I wanted to see him for one day! ( because the other days he has to go to another place for a training) He wants to meet in a big city and that city is one hour flight away from where I live, its in another country in Europe then where I live.
I aksed him if we could make plan to see eachother when we both have holidays so we can have more time and see eachother a couple of days, it would be much more relaxt. I feel guilty for not wanting to fly to him for one day, but its just stresses me out to much also because we have never seen eachother in real live, only on skype. What would you guys/girls do if you where in this situation? Would you fly to see eachother for one day? and it's not cheap to go there for just to see eachother one afternoon and then fly back. For me its too short, to expensive and to stressfull, cause the next day I have a busy day. I prefer another time when we both have more time.
I am mailing/ skyping with a long distance friend for 2 years now. He lives in the USA and I live in Europe. We both have to figure out if we like eachother that much that we really want to commit to eachother and take the relationship a step further.
Now last week he told me he was going to be in Europe next week for his work. He asked me if I wanted to see him for one day! ( because the other days he has to go to another place for a training) He wants to meet in a big city and that city is one hour flight away from where I live, its in another country in Europe then where I live.
I aksed him if we could make plan to see eachother when we both have holidays so we can have more time and see eachother a couple of days, it would be much more relaxt. I feel guilty for not wanting to fly to him for one day, but its just stresses me out to much also because we have never seen eachother in real live, only on skype. What would you guys/girls do if you where in this situation? Would you fly to see eachother for one day? and it's not cheap to go there for just to see eachother one afternoon and then fly back. For me its too short, to expensive and to stressfull, cause the next day I have a busy day. I prefer another time when we both have more time.
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