To visit or not to visit

[QueenD]

My SO has to work when I visit he can't take time off. just find something else to do in the day.

This is actually a pretty great idea to incorporate, when you can. If you aren't used to spending 24/7 together or if one of you is a bit (or more) introverted, it can make your visit go better to have time away from each other in the form of work or something like that. I have been on my first visit with my SO this week, and we both worked most of the week. We also had one or two times when we would break apart for a couple hours during our days off work. It allows us a little downtime and to get some things done.

[Chris516]

Do it. Any time is better than no time.

That is advice good enough for the ages!!!