Hi all!
In a few weeks, I will be going to South Carolina to visit my SO again. This will be our 5th meeting since we stated our relationship in person, and it will be the longest at 17 days. Previously, I visited for 8-9 days in February, about the same amount in April, and then he was here for a couple days in June and a couple in July.
I proposed a longer visit because plane tix can get expensive and since I'm able to work remotely sometimes, I can take longer visits. At first, J said "wow, that sounds like a long time." my response to that was to ask him how long it takes before he gets sick of having me around. He said he has never felt that way, so I said that I thought a longer visit might be good because maybe we will get annoyed with each other and we need to figure out how we will deal with that. he agreed that's a good idea if we want to see whether this relationship could be permanent. I'm also hoping to spend time learning his city better so I can figure out whether it's feasible to move there from a professional and a personal perspective. During my visits we will be taking a short vacation (4 nights, one of which to meet my best friend and three to visit Charleston for fun.)
My question is this: what advice do you have to make this visit a really positive experience? I know many of you have had longer visits with your SOs so I'm interested in any suggestions!
Thanks!
D
In a few weeks, I will be going to South Carolina to visit my SO again. This will be our 5th meeting since we stated our relationship in person, and it will be the longest at 17 days. Previously, I visited for 8-9 days in February, about the same amount in April, and then he was here for a couple days in June and a couple in July.
I proposed a longer visit because plane tix can get expensive and since I'm able to work remotely sometimes, I can take longer visits. At first, J said "wow, that sounds like a long time." my response to that was to ask him how long it takes before he gets sick of having me around. He said he has never felt that way, so I said that I thought a longer visit might be good because maybe we will get annoyed with each other and we need to figure out how we will deal with that. he agreed that's a good idea if we want to see whether this relationship could be permanent. I'm also hoping to spend time learning his city better so I can figure out whether it's feasible to move there from a professional and a personal perspective. During my visits we will be taking a short vacation (4 nights, one of which to meet my best friend and three to visit Charleston for fun.)
My question is this: what advice do you have to make this visit a really positive experience? I know many of you have had longer visits with your SOs so I'm interested in any suggestions!
Thanks!
D
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