Hi there
So my SO and got together July last year after 3 months of knowing each other. He is from my home country and we met up for 2 days when we had to go back.
Idk it hurts to talk about this so I'm being quite blunt. So I've been planning to go visit him in February but due to personal reasons it would be a trip that my parents weren't informed about. But they found out and basically gave me the option to either cancel the tip or be disowned by the family. I don't know how to tell the news to him, because we've both been so excited he and his family has already made plans and now I'm being forced to cancel... What do I do what do I say? I don't know when I will be able to visit again, my parents said after I finish study I can do what I want... I know I'm not giving up on him and he did say to me that he won't give up on me if anything happens but he said he would sulk (idk the English equivalent; be too hurt to talk to me?) for a week or two if that were to happen... I, so scared idk what to do I need him during this but I don't want to disappoint him. I want to go so badly but I don't know if his family will accept a girl who was disowned, Never finished College, and reputation in tatters (may parents told me theyd spread itaround)? I know he wants us to both graduate for a better future together but Idk what to dooooooo HELP please
So my SO and got together July last year after 3 months of knowing each other. He is from my home country and we met up for 2 days when we had to go back.
Idk it hurts to talk about this so I'm being quite blunt. So I've been planning to go visit him in February but due to personal reasons it would be a trip that my parents weren't informed about. But they found out and basically gave me the option to either cancel the tip or be disowned by the family. I don't know how to tell the news to him, because we've both been so excited he and his family has already made plans and now I'm being forced to cancel... What do I do what do I say? I don't know when I will be able to visit again, my parents said after I finish study I can do what I want... I know I'm not giving up on him and he did say to me that he won't give up on me if anything happens but he said he would sulk (idk the English equivalent; be too hurt to talk to me?) for a week or two if that were to happen... I, so scared idk what to do I need him during this but I don't want to disappoint him. I want to go so badly but I don't know if his family will accept a girl who was disowned, Never finished College, and reputation in tatters (may parents told me theyd spread itaround)? I know he wants us to both graduate for a better future together but Idk what to dooooooo HELP please
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