Welp, I am back amongst you fine people after a pretty disastrous LDR meeting a few months back.
Within the last few weeks, I am back in the dating game, and my intention was to keep things local (and casual) this time. But, you know how that goes. Things never go how you planned. Also, within the last few weeks I have been catfished, as well as matched up with a married guy. Found out he was married through some sleuthing, but to his credit, he admitted to it when I called him out.
I have a date planned with a new guy. He is about 8 hours away, so I would say if things go further than just this date, it would probably qualify as a LDR, which is exactly the thing I wanted to avoid. The thing that has me worried is he is kind of hot and cold on the texting thing. Now, I am not talking during a work day or anything, but on weekends or at night...he will sometimes go from texting me consistently to hearing nothing from him for hours. Now...we talk every day. It's not like he is going days without talking to me. He just...falls off the face of the Earth for a bit. Other than this, he hasn't really given me any other reason to doubt him. He's been pretty consistent. So, my doubt stems from all of these bad online dating issues that have come up, in addition to the LDR thing from a few months back that was heart-wrenching, in combination with his texting behavior.
Am I just being paranoid? Should I call the date off? If I keep the date, what should I look for to see if he might actually be married or in a relationship? Am I crazy to get in another LDR?
Within the last few weeks, I am back in the dating game, and my intention was to keep things local (and casual) this time. But, you know how that goes. Things never go how you planned. Also, within the last few weeks I have been catfished, as well as matched up with a married guy. Found out he was married through some sleuthing, but to his credit, he admitted to it when I called him out.
I have a date planned with a new guy. He is about 8 hours away, so I would say if things go further than just this date, it would probably qualify as a LDR, which is exactly the thing I wanted to avoid. The thing that has me worried is he is kind of hot and cold on the texting thing. Now, I am not talking during a work day or anything, but on weekends or at night...he will sometimes go from texting me consistently to hearing nothing from him for hours. Now...we talk every day. It's not like he is going days without talking to me. He just...falls off the face of the Earth for a bit. Other than this, he hasn't really given me any other reason to doubt him. He's been pretty consistent. So, my doubt stems from all of these bad online dating issues that have come up, in addition to the LDR thing from a few months back that was heart-wrenching, in combination with his texting behavior.
Am I just being paranoid? Should I call the date off? If I keep the date, what should I look for to see if he might actually be married or in a relationship? Am I crazy to get in another LDR?
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