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Miss You Issues: Distant Comforts
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I have been through thick and thin together and we've never had to say anything to make each other feel better 'cause all we needed was to know somebody would always be there. When I went to school 9 hours away, things in her life just happened to turn for the worse (car accident, had to quit her job, sick grandmother {who she has to look after}, parents ALWAYS working). I wanted to make her feel better but she doesn't like to open up because everybody she has ope... -
Miss You Issues: Compatibility, Expectations & U
Dear Miss U, My bf and I (both 22 years old) have been officially together for about a year. He is the first person I truly love, and he feels the same way. However, we "argue" a lot: we aren't mean to each other, insult each other or any of this. But it seems like there is always something that bothers me. I feel like I am not his priority (when we are apart), that I do everything in the house (when we are together) etc. These moments are painful for the both of us. I sometimes wonder: ... -
Miss You Issues: The Internet Mine-Field & U
Dear Miss U, I was introduced to Sean on aim when I was 14, 15 years ago. My friend chatted with him through another friend. I had no contacts and she gave me his screen name. From there we talked everyday online for a few years. We decided to be committed to each other and I made plans to move out to Ohio but my money situation wouldn't let me. We broke it off and did our own things for a few years. But we always talked consistently (through text messages.) Recently we have started talking a l... -
Miss You Issues: Closing the Distance Planning
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I met in the states and have been together ever since. She has since gone back to England and we are now navigating the visa situation to allow one of us to make the big move. But she is freaking out, constantly questioning if she is strong enough to do the long distance now, and the big move later, saying that we should just give up because it’s going to be so difficult. I don't know what to do, she already knows that I love her, and after I tell her to have hop... -
Miss You Issues: How to Communicate
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I have not been talking as often and were always fighting. During the disagreements a lot of things go unsaid due to the fact we don’t like arguing so we avoid it. My boyfriend also tends to be very double standard with certain things in our relationship and takes his frustrations of not being able to be together or have sex out on me like I’m not experiencing the same thing. We try talking about it but it gets complicated and confusing after a while because wor... -
Miss You Issues: Together or... Not?
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I am Sam and my boyfriend is Brad. He lives 1800 miles away in Washington State. We've been best friends and in a relationship for almost a year and six months. Lately, we have been having issues and we have been fighting a little over the phone. We text 24/7 and every night we talk on the phone. The problem was that I was feeling like the relationship was getting too difficult and stressful for me so I told Brad. It has been stressful since day 1 but obviously, we are in a long distance relat...
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Miss You Issues: Timelines & U
Dear Miss U,
How do you keep going and try to smile when he’s not here I sat and watched him beg me not to make him go as he cried and I cried and I cant message him or webcam him and he is all the way in Italy while I’m in KY I have no doubt that we will make it I just want to know how can I smile when my everything isn’t here?
~ Half my Heart is in Italy Dear Halfie, You smile because you need to learn to be complete and happy in and by yourself. Your life can not revo... -
Miss You Issues: Insecurity, Infidelity & U
Dear Miss U, I met my boyfriend over the internet a little over a year ago we talked every day and soon discovered we had feelings for each other and as time went on, they grew. I know it's silly to a lot of people for someone so young to say this, but I am really in love with him. Despite the distance and despite never talking to each other in person we're both in love. The problem is, I'm horribly insecure. When we don't talk for a while I just sort of mope around. You see, I'm always the... -
Miss You Issues: Dating, Sex & U
Dear Miss U, I'm 22, college student, and still single. I think that makes me a little desperate. So, one day I accidentally wrote a message to this unknown lady on facebook, I got positive reply, and after a week messaging each other from facebook, I got her number and asked her out at once. And, a miracle, she agrees and our meeting is on my flight date. I'm departing from my hometown to 2 hours plane flight in another island. That afternoon we met and I have her to pose for me, and now eve... -
Miss You Issues: Time to talk & U
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I started dating our senior year of high school, after we had decided on separate colleges, but we both knew we were going to keep dating despite the distance. Two years went by, with us forgoing social lives in exchange for spending on average 8 hours a day "with" each other (video chatting, mostly). In our third year of long distance, we realized that we needed other friends in order to maintain a healthy relationship. That's left us talking to each other less ... -
Miss You Issues: Their Work Affects U
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend works entertainment on a cruise line. It was her dream to work on a cruise ship and she finally got the audition and the job for 1 contract. We have done the distance thing now and it is coming up on her time to come back. She is now asking should she put yes on "to be considered for future contracts" on her end-of-contract paperwork. There is nothing more I want in the world than for us to be together here. She says that’s what she wants too but then questions like this c... -
Miss You Issues: A Year & U
Dear Miss U, Here's my situation -I live in a household with a Dad, Mom, and two little brothers. My parents are the type who have "no girlfriend" rules. I've already tried talking with them about it--hoping to come to a compromise--but it didn't work. They basically tell me no relationships until I'm 18. And I'm 16 now (almost 17). For years I've been going through emotional pain because I see all my friends in these great relationships, and I see myself as being left out. So I joined (secretly) a dat... -
Miss You Issues: Communication & U
Dear Miss U, We've been together for a little over a year now. We live 2,300 miles apart. I'm still at home with my parents and he lives with a roommate. He was just home for ten days for Christmas and left on Christmas eve. Hardest thing ever. But him being home made me realize I can't do this another year. I need to be with him and I am more than willing to move there. So, clearly I have made up my mind. I guess what I am fighting with is how to talk to my parents about it? Its causing me to... -
Miss You Issues: Questions for U to ask
Hello there,
My girlfriend and I are running out of questions to ask each other, and it gets a bit tense at times. Can you recommend any good questions or lists of deep meaningful ones?
Alex
G’day Alex
It can be hard to come up with good thought-provoking questions! Luckily there are many resources out there for the uninspired. A few good links for books that I or people I know personally have tried and enjoyed :
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Miss You Issues: What's best for U
Dear Miss U, In the beginning of my boyfriend and I's relationship I had a male friend who would hit on me and I told the boy to stop and my boyfriend about him and I didn't want to be mean to the friend and tell him that I did not like him and to leave me alone. Then over the summer I accidentally lied to my boyfriend 3 times about telling him everything and he lied and hid some things too. But then at the end of August when I started high school he suddenly began picking fights with me eac...
