I hope I am posting this in the correct place....My s/o and I closed the distance almost a month ago. Although we are still in the process of getting to know one another (we've been dating since June-yes we moved very fast!!) and seeing what it is like to live in the same state, I kind of feel blah about it all. I pictured myself being wayyy more exicted about this once it happened, but now that it actually has-I just feel okay. Not overjoyed, but okay...
Its not that I love him any less- I truly do love him and want to be with him, but I also have that "now what" feeling since we have moved in together. Our goal since my second time visiting him was to close the distance and now that we have did that, I almost feel like what else do we look forward to? I know this may sound foolish and even ungrateful to some, but don't get me wrong I love him and am very happy we both found amazing jobs in our fields and were able to even close the distance. I also have some other feelings that aren't so great. Perhaps the feelings are apart of me just adjusting to the new area and adjusting to our now closed distance relationship.
To the people who have closed the distance, how did you feel after it was done? How did you adjust as a couple once the distance was closed? Were there any lull periods during that time?
Hopefully folks will understand this post as I found myself rambling (now) quite a bit...
Its not that I love him any less- I truly do love him and want to be with him, but I also have that "now what" feeling since we have moved in together. Our goal since my second time visiting him was to close the distance and now that we have did that, I almost feel like what else do we look forward to? I know this may sound foolish and even ungrateful to some, but don't get me wrong I love him and am very happy we both found amazing jobs in our fields and were able to even close the distance. I also have some other feelings that aren't so great. Perhaps the feelings are apart of me just adjusting to the new area and adjusting to our now closed distance relationship.
To the people who have closed the distance, how did you feel after it was done? How did you adjust as a couple once the distance was closed? Were there any lull periods during that time?
Hopefully folks will understand this post as I found myself rambling (now) quite a bit...
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