Who would move?

[paulawriteslove]

At the moment is is unknown who will be moving, but it will most likely be me
I don't mind moving because he has a good full time job where he is and I don't want him to have to find a job here. I think it makes everything easier if at least one person has a job.

[squiddie]

I've noticed the tendency for people to expect the chick in the relationship (if there is one/only one) to move. annoys the hell out of me.

It bugs me as well. That's why I posted this, I was curious to see what other LFAD members thought.

Yes, I am the woman and I plan to be the one moving, but as I explained, my career is more flexible than his. I'd love to be able to stay here, but I want to be with him more. I'm also more comfortable with moving, as I did a fair amount of it growing up...doesn't mean I enjoy doing it though.

I think if both parties are not moving, the one whose life will be easier to relocate should go. Unfortunately, that's me.

[Karringtyn]

He is moving here. I have joint custody with my ex and there is a clause in the seperation that has a 30 mile radius that prevents us from moving from the other. My SO knew this in the beginning....he loves it here...(but I LOVE it there...lol)...so he will be moving here...and when we retire....I hope to have a summer home there!

[mynameiseric]

ill be moving in a little under a year....ive told her that if I could, and if money was right, id move tomorrow no problem. im tired of the tossing and turning with the sleepless nights of not being with her. I would do and give anything for that girl, but our situation isnt as bad as some people's, so I do feel truely blessed

[Mio]

My boy moved to my country, he thought it was the best thing for me.

[Tabitha]

My SO is the one moving in our relationship. I'm already well into grad school, so he is moving here for law school. It simply made more sense than me changing schools when he isn't enrolled anywhere at the moment.

[Kirschlein]

He is moving here, because i live in a city and here he has more chances to get a job and everything. Actually i rather wanted to go to him, because nothing is really holding me here, but i guess both of us can live with that.
I am realy happy that he is coming already next year, i'm into the preperations much lately and when he comes everything will be finished. <3

[leonina]

He's going to be moving closer, and then I will probably move in with him a year after that. So, both of us will be moving.

[Ozzigirl]

At first I actually was the one to move but then I couldn't because University in Australia is super expensive and there just wasn't a way that I could ever pay that. So, I'm hoping that my bf will move to Germany to be with me until we finish our uni (so like 4 years) and then we'll probably go back to Australia because we love it there. But my bf has to decide still if he wants to do that. For me personally, I'd move anywhere just to be with my bf and nothing could ever keep me from doing that.

[maielle]

I'm going to move because his studies and profession are going to be closely related to Austrian law... and that's pretty much useless in Finland. I study management and you need managers and consultants everywhere in the world. Also It's way easier for me to learn German than for him to learn Finnish. And I've already twice moved to a city where I didn't know anyone and everything turned out great! (The second time was my exchange studies and I met my SO <3)

[nicole]

I'm the one who's moving... hopefully. If I don't mess up my last year of uni. then I will go back to live with him and do my PhD and then we both want to move to Chicago. If I do mess up, and there's no way for me to get a job in America, then he said he'd start looking at jobs here.

But ideally, I want to move there. I am not a home-bird, I WANT to move far far away =) I don't know why really, I probably just want to start fresh again.

[littleweirdout]

This is the million dollar question in our relationship. Right now we are focused on growing our careers where we currently live. We both believe it is still too early to figure out who will move since we both do not want to settle down until we hit our thirties. That gives us 3 years and if our relationship last that long, I am sure we would figure out by then who would move.

[DarkSolitary]

Right now it's kinda undecided. We have three plans that we are trying to decide which is better.

Plan One: He moves here with me. He doesn't really like where he lives and wants to be away from his family.

Plan Two: I move there for a few years and then move back to where I originally live.

Plan Three: Move to Colorado! I've only been there once and loved it. He's never been there xD

[Caitlin2009]

the both of us are gonna be moving. She no longer feels like its home where she is and i never thought CT was my home, so were both gonna move to NC. Yeah theres some pressure mainly because your used to living where you are and its huge step to move to a different state!

[Darth_Taco]

I'm moving :P. Worst unemployment rate in the country tends to force you to do that XP. Regardless though, I always wanted to go back to California. Vegas is home and always will be, but I don't really belong here. It's ok, I love Los Angeles and have been trying to move there since I was 9 xD. I just have a perfect excuse now :P.

Fortunately there's no woman in our relationship ;D. Too bad this man can still get pregnant because removal of the uterus is still freaking expensive! D:< Damn you no health insurance ;_;! By the way, it's easier for me to get health insurance there than it is for me here xD.