A little frustrated tonight. Here's my situation:
Me: GREAT job, my family, my new nephew, friends, my own place.
Him: Military (which he is really disliking), doesn't want to go back to where he's from
We talked about me going there so he could stay in till he can retire. Cool. I guess I'll try to find a job. My line of work is pretty specialized and I will not be able to find work making what I am now. The closest facility that is similar is an hour away and the only postings they ever have would be less than half of what I'm making. I'd be leaving my family whom I am VERY close to, and my awesome nephew who is my heart and soul.
He changed his mind. He wants to get out. He hates it, he wants me to be with my family and doesn't want me to leave my job. He'll come here.
He changed his mind again. He might want to stay in. Ugh.. I have such a great chance of advancement even more with my job.. he's scared of not being able to make money when he gets out of the military.
I'm not expecting him to make his mind up right now but I felt confident that he was coming here. I guess I'm bummed out? Regardless I want to be with him however I can be, but I guess I got my hopes up that he'd be here. I got comfortable with the idea and started looking for a house.
Words of wisdom?
Me: GREAT job, my family, my new nephew, friends, my own place.
Him: Military (which he is really disliking), doesn't want to go back to where he's from
We talked about me going there so he could stay in till he can retire. Cool. I guess I'll try to find a job. My line of work is pretty specialized and I will not be able to find work making what I am now. The closest facility that is similar is an hour away and the only postings they ever have would be less than half of what I'm making. I'd be leaving my family whom I am VERY close to, and my awesome nephew who is my heart and soul.
He changed his mind. He wants to get out. He hates it, he wants me to be with my family and doesn't want me to leave my job. He'll come here.
He changed his mind again. He might want to stay in. Ugh.. I have such a great chance of advancement even more with my job.. he's scared of not being able to make money when he gets out of the military.
I'm not expecting him to make his mind up right now but I felt confident that he was coming here. I guess I'm bummed out? Regardless I want to be with him however I can be, but I guess I got my hopes up that he'd be here. I got comfortable with the idea and started looking for a house.
Words of wisdom?
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