hello,
i'm new here, and need some advice!
just wondering, how soon in your LDR did you begin discussing closing the distance and your future together? i've been in a LDR for about 6 months, with only about 3 visits altogether between the two of us. more visits are planned for the summer, though, so we're excited about that!
so yeah, he's coming up in the summertime-when do i bring up our future as a long-term couple, relocating and all that jazz? do i wait it out a bit more, maybe after the next couple of visits to see how the relationship goes? like i said, we've been at this for about 6 months, but people are already asking who's moving to be with whom, and if we're getting married. gee, no pressure or anything! (sarcasm) kind of annoying, but now i feel like i should at least have some kind of plan (i.e. knowing how long it'll be before we close the distance). when we began our relationship, we said we'd take things slowly, and that's what we've been doing.
help! thanks
i'm new here, and need some advice!
just wondering, how soon in your LDR did you begin discussing closing the distance and your future together? i've been in a LDR for about 6 months, with only about 3 visits altogether between the two of us. more visits are planned for the summer, though, so we're excited about that!
so yeah, he's coming up in the summertime-when do i bring up our future as a long-term couple, relocating and all that jazz? do i wait it out a bit more, maybe after the next couple of visits to see how the relationship goes? like i said, we've been at this for about 6 months, but people are already asking who's moving to be with whom, and if we're getting married. gee, no pressure or anything! (sarcasm) kind of annoying, but now i feel like i should at least have some kind of plan (i.e. knowing how long it'll be before we close the distance). when we began our relationship, we said we'd take things slowly, and that's what we've been doing.
help! thanks
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