Some of you might have already read about my situation. My man and I thought we'd closed the distance for good but for reasons out of our control I had to fly back to the UK, and we didn't know when we would be together again. It looked like sometime around August but it's completley out of our control. Could be a lot longer, not much chance of it being shorter. We just had to basicly wait for something out of our control to happen.
So my man was at work yesterday and we were pingchatting on your phones and he said he'd been thinking of a situation that would allow us to be together a lot sooner! And that he would explain it to me next time we Skype, which would mean I would have to wait 2-3 days to hear it! I was like, no way! Tell me now!
So anyway he told me and it's really an amazing idea. In a couple of years he was planning on retiring and getting a job at this place where he can earn a LOT of money in a very short space of time. We were planning on doing this for a couple of years to save money to allow us to sail the world. Well basicly his plan is to quit working now, and work up there. Usually you stay in camps but he said we will rent an apartment up there until things are 'done' back on the boat so I can move back there.
So I should explain the whole story. He's still married but had been seperated for a while before we met. He stayed at the home (boat) while she moved out. When she found out he was seeing someone else she went a bit insane and kicked me out, and has moved back in. Which is the reason why I had to come back to the UK.
Well, she's very, very ill and has some disease that she is duying from. It's to do with her liver and it's terminal. She wont make it to the end of the year. Which, is basicly the thing that is out of our control. They were getting a divorce and she was going to try and get every penny out of him that she could, and they were selling the boat because he couldn't buy her out.
So we decided to the best thing for him to do it so call off the divorce so that they don't sell the boat and we're not thousands of pounds in debt. They're not really together they've just gone back to how they were before she left, sleep in seperate beds, don't eat meals together, barely speak etc. Just basicly living in the same place. And once she (I feel terrible for even saying this) dies, he keeps the boat and I can move back in.
So anyway because this is really tough and when she's living on the boat perminently, and stops working because of her illness mine and his communication will be barely nothing. There will be no skyping because she'll always be there. So his idea will allow us to live together. It's one of those fly in/out jobs so he will stay with me for two weeks then go back to the boat for a few days to 'keep up appearances'. Until like I said, we can move back onto the boat together.
So, it's really tough situation and it probably makes us sound like horrible people, right?
But anyway, now it looks like we could be together in 2-3 months maybe even sooner, instead of like a minimum of 6 months.
Just wanted to share all of this with all of you really! Sorry it's so long!
So my man was at work yesterday and we were pingchatting on your phones and he said he'd been thinking of a situation that would allow us to be together a lot sooner! And that he would explain it to me next time we Skype, which would mean I would have to wait 2-3 days to hear it! I was like, no way! Tell me now!
So anyway he told me and it's really an amazing idea. In a couple of years he was planning on retiring and getting a job at this place where he can earn a LOT of money in a very short space of time. We were planning on doing this for a couple of years to save money to allow us to sail the world. Well basicly his plan is to quit working now, and work up there. Usually you stay in camps but he said we will rent an apartment up there until things are 'done' back on the boat so I can move back there.
So I should explain the whole story. He's still married but had been seperated for a while before we met. He stayed at the home (boat) while she moved out. When she found out he was seeing someone else she went a bit insane and kicked me out, and has moved back in. Which is the reason why I had to come back to the UK.
Well, she's very, very ill and has some disease that she is duying from. It's to do with her liver and it's terminal. She wont make it to the end of the year. Which, is basicly the thing that is out of our control. They were getting a divorce and she was going to try and get every penny out of him that she could, and they were selling the boat because he couldn't buy her out.
So we decided to the best thing for him to do it so call off the divorce so that they don't sell the boat and we're not thousands of pounds in debt. They're not really together they've just gone back to how they were before she left, sleep in seperate beds, don't eat meals together, barely speak etc. Just basicly living in the same place. And once she (I feel terrible for even saying this) dies, he keeps the boat and I can move back in.
So anyway because this is really tough and when she's living on the boat perminently, and stops working because of her illness mine and his communication will be barely nothing. There will be no skyping because she'll always be there. So his idea will allow us to live together. It's one of those fly in/out jobs so he will stay with me for two weeks then go back to the boat for a few days to 'keep up appearances'. Until like I said, we can move back onto the boat together.
So, it's really tough situation and it probably makes us sound like horrible people, right?
But anyway, now it looks like we could be together in 2-3 months maybe even sooner, instead of like a minimum of 6 months.
Just wanted to share all of this with all of you really! Sorry it's so long!
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